wabbit said:
AFAIK neutron stars are not counted as dark matter, but as ordinary matter
That's correct. See below.
PWiz said:
I just can't understand why a photon would interact with a neutron when according to the standard model it is a gauge boson whose interactions are exclusively limited to charged particles
Neutrons are composite objects; they are composed of three quarks. So even though a neutron is electrically neutral, it can still interact with photons because the quarks inside it are electrically charged. For example, the neutron has a nonzero magnetic moment. This is really no more mysterious than the fact that electrically neutral atoms can emit and absorb photons.
PWiz said:
I don't think that decay occurs in a neutron star
Correct; neutrons in bound states don't undergo the weak interaction decay, only free neutrons do. (Actually, that's not quite true--there are atomic nuclei that undergo beta decay, which means one of the neutrons inside the nucleus undergoes the weak interaction decay. But that happens because the neutron is very loosely bound in such nuclei. Neutrons in a neutron star are more tightly bound.)
PWiz said:
I thought that such invisible, yet massive objects would qualify as dark matter.
There is probably some variation in terminology, but from the standpoint of cosmology and modeling the universe as a whole, the key characteristic of dark matter is not just that it's not visible now, but that it
never was visible; i.e., it has always been dark since the early universe. Neutron stars, even if they themselves are not easily visible, are formed from matter that is easily visible (stars). So we can estimate how many neutron stars there are from looking at visible matter--watching how often supernovas happen, etc. (Also, of course, we have detectable evidence of some neutron stars, since that's what pulsars are--see below.) The only way we have of estimating how much dark matter there is is by its gravitational effect.
wabbit said:
The argument I've seen simply states that neutron stars are hot so they emit blackbody radiation in the x ray range
This is true when they first form, but AFAIK they cool fairly rapidly. However, there are still ways for neutron stars to emit radiation: pulsars are neutron stars that emit beams of radio waves because they are spinning rapidly and have magnetic fields.