I'm sorry for my speculation, but please let me clearify.
With pole-barn I meant the version where a vase stands on a table. There is a machanism that let's the vase fall on the ground driven by an AND-gate between signals from the two gates, so the vase should fall if both are closed the same time and if not it should stand on the table, so the result will be different in the frame of the barn than in that of the pole. The solution of this paradox in special relativity is that the signals from the gate to the vase can't go faster than light and so if it falls or not is the same in every frame. But if sending qbits goes instantly, in the frame of the barn, the vase falls and in the frame of the pole it doesn't.
But ok, if you say that instantly is by definition in the frame of the sender, then I have another issue. Imagine a particle A moving at high velocity past a particle B and sending a qbit of information to it instantly. For particle B it seems that it receives the information before it was sent. Now, B can be coupled to another particle B' in the same frame via a mechanism so that if B has received signal B' sends another signal to A' in the same frame as A, instantly in the B-frame. And one can think of a mechanism that let's A' prevent A to send the information to B in the first place.
If this does not violate causality in modern QFT, what are its solutions to this paradoxes? I tried to look for it on the internet because I thought many people would have asked the same question(I'm taught so far that entanglement can only cause a collapse but not send information, precisely because of these paradoxes with SR), but I didn't find the solution.