Christine88 said:
Coordinate acceleration. Yes I think that is where I'm running into problems. I'm thinking in terms of actual acceleration as opposed to theoretical acceleration.
The terminology that is used here in SR and GR is probably different than what you are used to. Coordinate acceleration is the rate of change of coordinate velocity with coordinate time (and I think this is more or less what you were describing as your understanding of the term "acceleration"). In Newtonian physics, this is what the term "acceleration" without qualification usually means. But the "coordinate" qualifier is important: by changing coordinates, you can make it look as if one and the same object has very different accelerations. For example, if I drop a rock, the rock accelerates downwards with respect to coordinates in which the Earth is fixed; but I could also choose coordinates in which the rock is fixed and the Earth and I are accelerating upwards. As far as coordinate acceleration goes, both of these coordinates are equally valid; neither one is more "real" than the other.
In relativity, however, the key is to focus on invariants--things that don't depend on what coordinates you choose--because those are what contain the actual physics. In the case of the rock, the key invariants are that the rock feels no acceleration--it is weightless (we are ignoring air resistance here--if it helps, imagine we're dropping the rock on the Moon instead of the Earth)--but I, standing on the surface, do feel acceleration (weight). And that is true regardless of whether we choose coordinates in which I am at rest, or coordinates in which the rock is at rest.
In relativity, this latter kind of acceleration--the kind that is directly felt--is called "proper acceleration", and when the term "acceleration" is used without qualification in relativity, it is more likely than not to mean proper acceleration rather than coordinate acceleration (although many sources unfortunately are sloppy about this). The key reason why we focus on proper acceleration in relativity is that it is the kind of acceleration that requires a force--i.e., it requires something to be done to the object. An object that feels zero proper acceleration will continue in the same state of motion, feeling zero proper acceleration, indefinitely, without anything having to be done to it. The role that curvature of spacetime plays is to determine what states of motion are states of zero proper acceleration (and in GR this is linked to the presence of gravitating masses via the Einstein Field Equation).
So the answer to the question, what starts the rock accelerating downwards? is that nothing has to--the rock's state of motion once I drop it is the "natural" state of motion in that part of spacetime, the one that any object will have if nothing is being done to it. It is I, and the rock before I drop it, who must have something continually being done to us (the Earth's surface pushing up on me, making me feel weight, and my hand pushing on the rock) to maintain our state of motion.
Much of what I've said here has already been said in this thread, but I thought it might be helpful to try to pull it all together.
Christine88 said:
Ok, good. One key thing that I think it will be helpful to keep in mind: in GR, physics in a small patch of spacetime (i.e., a small region of space over a small interval of time) works just like physics in SR. So everything you learn about SR can be carried over to GR as far as local physics is concerned. The difference in GR (i.e., when gravity is present) is that the small local patches of spacetime "fit together" globally in a different way than they do in SR (because in the presence of gravity, spacetime is curved and not flat).
An analogy that is often used is that, in a small enough region of the Earth's surface, you can ignore its curvature and treat it, locally, as if it were a flat plane. But globally, the little flat planes you use in each local area "fit together" differently, because of the curvature of the Earth's surface, than they would if the Earth was globally flat.