Zebulin said:
This question has been bothering me for decades:
Imagine a point source in space that emits one photon per second. Would the photon expand in a globe in all directions until it strikes an object or would the photon shoot off in a random direction?
Suppose you have one target ten meters away and nothing else for light years. Would that target
1. receive most or all of the radiation (as the expanding globe of light encounters it first and the wave function collapses)
or would it
2. receive only a fraction proportional to the angle of the globe that it intersects?
If you say 1, then how is this consistent with what happens from regular light sources? Why would the multi-photon case not also focus on the nearest object?
If you say 2, then how is this consistent with the explanation of the two-slit experiments that says the photon passes through both slits at once?
Photons present a peculiar problem that you probably didn't have in mind, namely that, for some extremely technical reasons, they don't have an ordinary wavefunction expressed in terms of position. So although we are allowed to think of the photon as a point particle we cannot say it has a position. However, we can gloss over this by replacing the photon with an electron which doesn't have the same issue. Or refer only to the photon's probability amplitude.
The particle's wavefunction does expand spherically - assuming a symmetrical source.
The same behaviour can be modeled with a point particle that leaves the source in a "random" direction provided you say that it takes all such directions at once, i.e. in superposition. It then gets complicated. It would be nice to be able to say that the superposition of every possible ray path gives the expanding sphere as the tips of all the rays, but, unfortunately, quantum mechanics does not allow infinitely narrow paths. Narrow objects spread out. But the behaviour can be modeled as the particle propagating in every direction at once
all the time. This would make the particle explore every possible path to every possible destination, not just the straight paths and not just the ones that make sense. Remarkably, the superposition of all these paths does give you the wavefunction. This is Feynman's Path Integral Formulation. Interpreting it as the particle
really taking all possible paths is generally discouraged but is
not illegal in most jurisdictions 
.
That said, it seems you are thinking of a wavefunction as a physical wave. Bad idea. It's a description of the state of the whole system. If the system happens to be a quantum of electromagnetic radiation minding its own business in free space, the wavefunction/probability amplitude may very well map quite closely to the picture of the photon as a wave. Otherwise it's a mathematical function which need not be a recognisable wave at all.
I don't know why you say "until it strikes an object" and "encounters it first and the wave function collapses". That's not how wavefunctions behave. Nobody knows for certain whether wavefunction collapse occurs at all and many physicists think there is no such thing - especially now that we know that QM predicts the appearence of collapse and the emergence of probability without collapse actually occurring. But I suspect you're thinking of collapse as something that pretty well takes the whole wavefunction down. Zap!

It isn't anything like that. The wavefunction is a superposition of every possible observable state.
Collapse means that upon observation, or interaction, it becomes just one of the possibilities. And that's all it means.
So yes, the wavefunction collapses upon encountering the first target. And the second. And the third. If the particle is absorbed, its wavefunction disappears and the target is changed. If it is not absorbed, a new wavefunction carries on until the next target. Without collapse all the possibilities, now including the various target states, remain in superposition.
So there is no question of focussing on the nearest object!
The question of how much of the radiation the target receives is also meaningless. Under collapse-thinking, if the target absorbs the particle, the wavefunction ceases to exist completely everywhere, instantly (go figure!). If it doesn't then the wavefunction carries on with a shadow cast by the target. If you allow superposition as you should - no collapse - the particle and the target are entangled: you have to consider their
joint wavefunction which is a superposition of "absorbed" and "not absorbed".
"The explanation of the two-slit experiments that says the photon passes through both slits at once" is just a loose way of saying that the wavefunction (PA!) represents both cases in superposition. Remember Schroedinger's Cat is a superposition of fully alive and fully dead. But there's only one cat. (Gratuitous diagram of a cat: ⇒

⇐) Similarly, "photon to the left and photon to the right, but there's only one photon".
TLDR: Superposition is the key to every quantum puzzle, every paradox. It is totally counter-intuitive and yet it is inherent in QM.