alackofcolor said:
I don't under how anything would appear to be moving in slow motion.
I guess we'll have to go into those other issues that I said were lurking. George Jones already brought up the main one: if the word "appear" means "what each astronaut would actually see with his eyes, or with a telescope", then while the astronauts are moving towards each other, they would each see the other's clock ticking
faster than their own, not slower (and similarly for other things happening inside the other's ship). Furthermore, when the astronauts are moving away from each other, while they will see each other's clock ticking slower than their own, the difference in rates actually seen will
not be what you would calculate from the standard time dilation formula. The difference actually seen is given by the relativistic Doppler formula. The time dilation formula gives what each astronaut would
calculate the rate of the other's clock to be, after correcting what he actually sees (with his eyes or a telescope) for light travel time.
Furthermore, the whole "appear to be moving in slow motion" thing glosses over a key distinction, which I'll illustrate as follows. Suppose one astronaut starts bouncing a light beam from one end of his ship to the other. And suppose, for definiteness, he is moving away from the other astronaut as he does this. The light beam will be traveling at the speed of light according to both astronauts; so if we just consider one "leg" of the beam's motion (back end of ship to front, or front end to back), the light beam is certainly not moving "in slow motion".
So where does the "slow motion" thing come from? Consider the
time it takes, according to the other astronaut (the one in the other ship, watching the first ship and the beam bouncing inside it), for the beam to make one round trip, compared to the time it takes according to the astronaut in the same ship as the ball. The former time (according to the other astronaut) will be
longer than the latter. Why? Because, from the standpoint of the other ship, the beam, starting from the rear of its own ship, has to "catch up" with the front end of the ship in order to bounce (since, from the standpoint of the other ship, the front end of the ship is moving too). This lengthens the time the beam takes to reach the front end of its ship and bounce. Some of this time lag gets made up on the return leg, because now the rear end of the ship is catching up to the beam; but if you work out the math, the total time for the beam's round trip will still be longer from the standpoint of the other ship. This difference is time dilation (work out the math and you will see that the ratio of the two times is just the standard time dilation factor--in fact this is just the standard "light clock" thought experiment).
So to understand where the "slow motion" comes from, it's important to draw a distinction between the
speed at which something is moving, and the
time it takes for a particular process (such as the beam making one round trip) to complete. The latter is where the "slow motion" comes in.