Jaunzaum's second diagram is incorect. It ignores the length contraction that will make Pam see a much shorter distance between the start and end of her journey while she is traveling. Only as they match speeds at the midpoint of the journey does this distance expand again to match the distance seen by Jim. So Pam sees Jim shoot out further out at turnaround, as has been mentioned before (by Peter, I think).
Also, when she switches on her gravity machine (her rocket motors) she will see Jims clock speed up due to the difference in gravitational potential. So a more correct diagram would be like this -
In answer to Peter's question, his view is that of a mathematicuian. All the correct numbers can be obained from one static reference frame, and one doesn't have to look at the situation from any other point of view. But some of us want a bit more than numbers. We want to be able to visualize the situation from different points of view to enable us to understand it a bit more deeply. Of course, there are limits to what our imagining can achieve - I still like the Bohr atom with its circular and elliptical orbits, and electrons jumping from one orbit to the other!
Mike
NB. I didn't count the year dots on Jims turnaround line.
NB2. The two lines of simultaneity shouldn't meet at 4 on Pams time line - than would assume that turnaround is accomplished in zero time.