Buckethead said:
Thanks all for your replies, but as nisse mentioned, you are really evading the essence of the question. Yes, there are impact problems at high speed and so on but these are purely mechanical. What I am questioning here is the fact that from one frame of reference the super hot gasses have enought time to burn through the skin of the ship, but from another, there is simply not enough time to do so.
Not disagreeing with previous answers, there may be something else that you should take into account and which, if you do not, may be the reason for your concern:
You seem to be assuming that, because two observers disagree on how much time has elapsed between two events, they may also disagree on what happens: for instance, whether the ship disintegrates or not. It is not so. An essential rule of SR (albeit sometimes not highlighted enough) is that events happen for all observers. All practical problems, as far as I know, rely on the occurrence or not of events. Ergo, all observers agree on the solution to practical problems, like whether the ship disintegrates or not.
Your problem can be decomposed as follows: (i) how many collisions take place between the molecules of the gas and the molecules of the ship and (ii) at what velocity and hence with what kinetic energy. (i) is a number of events happening or not and (ii) also depends on other events, i.e., the previous collisions of other gas molecules among themselves. All observers should agree that those events happen.
Let us say that for example we judge from the sun frame and from the ship frame. The ship enters the gas medium at v wrt the sun = 0.5 c. At this time the ship synchronizes its clock with the sun observer there located and the latter with a sun observer located at the centre of the sun, by sending to him a light signal and following the Einstein convention (I know, it’s quite unreal…). The ship disintegrates when the ship reaches the centre of the sun and the ship’s clock reads 2 microseconds. The centre-of-the-sun clock reads at that event 2.309 microseconds. In the sun frame, the ship, obviously, has also disintegrated: the sun observer located there has witnessed so. It simply happens that passengers in the ship frame should count on having 2 microseconds of their proper time to kiss farewell among them before disintegrating, while sun observers would calculate that they can kiss each other during 2.309 microseconds while the ship disintegrates…