whatif said:
It seems to me that comparing 2 frames in which the objects of interest are represented as stationary, in their respective frames, represents the comparative difference of how all things are experienced in reality. That is, it is not just a different interpretation of reality, it is a different real experience.
The word "frame" unfortunately has multiple meanings which imply different answers to this.
First, a word change: the word "experience" is not a good one to use here. I will use "measurements" instead, because we are not (or should not be) talking about subjective opinions of people, but about objective measured quantities that everyone can agree on.
The more common usage is to use "frame" to mean "coordinate chart". (This is more or less the usage in the other open thread you have on this general topic.) A coordinate chart is not (more precisely, does not have to be) a description of anyone's measurements. It is just a mathematical convenience: we assign four numbers to each event in spacetime, with certain requirements on continuity, differentiability, etc. (for example, the numbers describing events that are near each other in spacetime should not differ by much). The numbers do not even have to describe "space" and "time" the way the usual coordinates used for pedagogy in special relativity (global inertial coordinates) do. They can be any numbers whatever that meet the mathematical requirements.
However, there is another, less common usage of "frame", to mean what is more correctly called a "frame field". This is an assignment of four unit vectors, one timelike and three spacelike, to every event in spacetime (again with requirements about continuity, etc.). These vectors represent, heuristically, a clock and three mutually perpendicular rulers that are used by an observer at a given event in spacetime to make measurements. So different frames in this sense represent different physical measuring devices, and therefore different measurement results, i.e., something actually physically different, with the difference being observable.
It's easy to cause confusion in relativity discussions by confusing the above two meanings of "frame".
(Note, btw, that "inertial frame" has meaning in both senses; in the first sense, it means an inertial coordinate chart, i.e., a chart in which objects moving in free fall have worldlines that are straight lines; and in the second sense, it means an assignment of unit vectors at every event such that they are also the basis vectors of some inertial coordinate chart at that event, i.e., they "point" in the four coordinate grid directions at that event.)
whatif said:
The laws of physics apply to all frames. All frames are valid. The laws of physics have no preference for any particular frame.
This is correct, for both senses of "frame" above.
whatif said:
It seems to me that frames in which objects are stationary are special with respect to the object of interest, especially when the object is a person.
Only in the sense that it is often convenient for a person to choose a frame in which they are at rest in order to describe measurements. But that is a matter of convenience, and is not even always true. For example, when you go to the grocery store, do you adopt a frame in which you are at rest? If you do, that means you think of your footsteps on the ground, or the wheels of your car, as moving the Earth and everything on it while you stand still. Is that how you think of it?
whatif said:
I see no conflict between 1 and 2.
There isn't if 2. is interpreted as I did above. But many people (including, I think, you in your other open thread) try to interpret 2. to mean more than I said it did above. The correct response is to not do that.