Well, to the big question you're asking the answer obviously has to be yes. Each individual particle does curve spacetime according to general relativity, having its own "gravitational field", and we know the net effect is that of a macroscopic object. You have to be careful in thinking about how you would actually do such a computation. The field equations of GR are not linear (in contrast to, say, the field equations for electromagnetism), so you cannot simply "add" the spacetime curvatures from all the different elementary particles and recover what we know to be the curvature for an object like the earth. Instead, you have to actually consider the system of 10^50 or however many particles you want in the stress energy tensor and then proceed to solve the einstein equations (a tall task indeed!).
But schematically, yes what you're saying is correct, just note that gravity is not an emergent phenomenon but does exist on the smaller scales as well.