Kerrie
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SGT said:Any mother is constantly worried about the health and the safety of her children. So mothers have hundreds of intuitions every day, most of them unpleasant. When nothing bad happens, the mother simply forgets the intuition. But bad things happen all the time, so when one of them happens to your child, you will certainly remember you had an intuition about it. This is what is called selective thinking, you keep the thoughts that confirm your preconceived ideas and forget the ones that don't.
Any mother? Choose your words carefully regarding mother's intuition, especially if you are not a mother yourself...I don't appreciate you discounting my experiences so carelessly, or any parents experiences for that matter. Stating your opinion as fact lends you little credibility. No where in my post did I imply my intuition was "magical", but something that our current accumulation of knowledge (especially yours) may not yet explain.
Of course I spend a lot of time and effort with my children, so that bond I have with them strengthens my intuition with them, and not just when bad things happen. Just the other night my 5 year old son awoke in the middle of the night from falling asleep very early in the evening. He laid in bed quietly since he knew everyone else was sleeping, and didn't make a sound to wake anyone. At the same time, I awoke very suddenly with the concern that he could wake up any moment hungry since he slept through dinner. I gently peeked into his room, and there he was lying in his bed quietly and I asked him if he was hungry. For the next couple of hours, we hung out, had hot chocolate and then fell back asleep on the couch. Now tell me, is this a bad thing? Or just my mother's intuition that understands my children that you discount as unpleasant?
I get very irritated with those who are determined to think one way without taking into account some credible experiences that are the catalyst for some innovative ways of understanding our world and ourselves better. To be skeptical is one thing, to be stubborn in your ways of thinking is not being skeptical.
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