@fet2105: any of this useful to you?
Just to be clear...
The question before us is this:
Why are [plank length and time etc] [considered by some to be] the end all be all of physics? Can anyone break it down?
... the brackets are mine.
We do have to be careful not to indulge in undue speculation since this is fringe stuff.
However, the links in post #2 should explain why the plank length/time tends to be seen as a limiting case in certain ways (details in links).
Even if it were speculation - the rules on speculation are pretty clear:
https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=414380
Generally, in the forums we do not allow the following:
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Personal theories or speculations that go beyond or counter to generally-accepted science
Generally, discussion topics should be traceable to standard textbooks or to peer-reviewed scientific literature. Usually, we accept references from journals that are listed here:
http://ip-science.thomsonreuters.com/mjl/
... it is quite easy to find articles in those journals from that list which refer to plank length physics. Most commonly in terms of quantum gravity.
A quick review of the literature should tell anyone interested the scope of discussion here.
The fact that what happens at the plank limit is basically speculative is the subject of the question ... "how come our models end at that scale?" OP has not asked for speculation or put forward a personal speculation about what happens at the plank scale ... but has asked why the plank scale is (considered by many to be) special.
OTOH: OP could be thinking of something else, I'm making the most favorable interpretation of the question :)