Heheh.. actually I was hoping someone else would start- I'm clueless. Well my fiancee has it like every other girl on the planet, and of course I'm expected to keep track of these things, and know her cycle. So I tell her I'll be more understanding. So what does she tell me? "no you don't understand what I want" So normally in conversation it's followed by the person stating what it is they want. Nope.."what DO you want?" Dead silence. It's not like I'm young and not used to dealing with it,but I'm no closer to an answer now than I was 10 years ago. As guys, we can't understand it so we just accept it. So if anyone has any good tips for how to deal with this, I'm all ears, and totally open to suggestion. At this point I'll try anything. I also encourage the females to give me suggestions. Personally I don't think this is something even a physicist could solve.. *shrug* HELP!!!!