A rocket carries a firecracker. The firecracker explodes. Does this event--the explosion--take place in the rocket frame or in the laboratory frame? Which is the "home" frame for the event? A second firecracker, originally at rest in the laboratory frame, explodes. Does this second event occur in the laboratory frame or in the rocket frame?
Events are primary, the essential stuff of Nature. Reference frames are secondary, devised by humans for locating and comparing events. A given event occurs in both frames--and in all possible frames moving in all possible directions and with all possible constant relative speeds though the region of spacetime in which the event occurs. The apparatus that "causes" the event may be at rest in one free-float frame; Another apparatus that "causes" a second event may be at rest in a second free-float frame in motion relative to the first. No matter. Each event has its own unique existence. Neither is "owned" by any frame at all.
A spark jumps 1 millimeter from the antenna of Mary's passing spaceship to a pen in the pocket of John who lounges in the laboratory doorway (Section 1.2). The "apparatus" that makes the spark has parts riding in different reference frames--pen in laboratory frame, antenna in rocket frame. The spark jump--in which frame does this event occur? It is not the property of Mary, not the property of John--not the property of any other observer in the vicinity, no matter what his or her state of motion. The spark-jump event provides data for every observer.
Drive a steel stake into the ground to mark the corner of a plot of land. Is this a "Daytime stake" or a "Nighttime stake"? Neither! It's just a stake, marking a location in space, the arena of surveying. Similarly an event is neither a "laboratory event" nor a "rocket event." It is just an event, marking a location in spacetime, the arena of science.