Darwin123 said:
In terms of special relativity, gravity is just like any other force. Gravitational acceleration is just like rocket thrust.
First of all, special relativity can't handle gravity at all. It's *general* relativity that deals with gravity.
Second, gravity in relativity is *not* like any other force; that's the whole point. What is just like rocket thrust is *sitting at rest* in a gravitational field--in other words, what is just like rocket thrust is *not* accelerating the way the local gravity field would accelerate you, for example, by standing on the surface of the Earth. This is one way of stating what is called the principle of equivalence.
Actually, from the standpoint of relativity, you *are* accelerated when you are standing on the surface of the Earth, because you feel weight. That's the relativistic definition of acceleration: feeling weight. (When absolute clarity is needed, this is called "proper acceleration".) This definition also works for the standard twin paradox scenario, but it doesn't really help with the variants we've been discussing. See below.
Darwin123 said:
The external force breaks the symmetry by acting on the traveling twin while he is a large distance from the Earth twin.
Yes, because the traveling twin is accelerated, in the above sense. In order to turn around, in the standard scenario, the traveling twin has to feel weight, even if only for an instant, while his rockets are firing (or some other external force is acting on him).
However, in the variant scenario I proposed, the "traveling twin", who flies upward and then slows to a stop and falls back down, because of the gravity of the massive object, is in free fall the whole time; he never feels any weight. That means he's not accelerated in the correct relativistic sense.
Darwin123 said:
In terms of general relativity, gravitational potential of the traveling twin is changing. I think this means that he is not on a geodesic.
You can change your gravitational potential and still be on a geodesic. Throw a ball upward and it will change its gravitational potential, but it is freely falling and so is moving on a geodesic.
In the standard twin paradox, where the traveling twin has to fire rockets to turn around, one way of analyzing the scenario uses the principle of equivalence to view the acceleration the traveling twin feels as being due to his rocket holding him at rest in a "gravitational field", while free-falling objects fall "downward" past him. On this view, the stay at home twin is much higher up in the field and so is at a much higher gravitational potential, and this is why the stay at home twin ages faster. The Usenet Physics FAQ gives a good treatment of this way of analyzing the scenario, along with its limitations:
http://math.ucr.edu/home/baez/physics/Relativity/SR/TwinParadox/twin_gr.html
Darwin123 said:
The traveling twin could monitor his motion by measuring the "tidal force" on his body. If there is a gravitational gradient, it will stretch his body.
In the standard scenario, there is no tidal force on the traveling twin; his rocket acts on him all at once, with no variation in thrust across his body. More generally, spacetime in the standard scenario is flat, which means that tidal gravity is zero, because tidal gravity is equivalent to spacetime curvature.
In my variant scenario, there is indeed tidal gravity present; in fact, according to general relativity, that's how you can tell a "true" gravitational field, like the one due to the Earth, from the "pseudo" field created by acceleration due to a rocket. However, the tidal gravity does not come into play in calculating the aging of the traveling twin as compared to the stay at home twin in my variant scenario; it's not what "breaks the symmetry". See below.
Darwin123 said:
The Earth twin feels a constant "tidal force" while the traveling twin feels a "time varying tidal force". So I would say that it is the "tidal force" that is breaking the asymmetry. I don't have the mathematics to back this up, though.
In both cases, we see that the gravitational potential breaks the symmetry. The local stress caused by gravity can be used to distinguish between trajectories.
Tidal gravity is not the same as gravitational potential. For one thing, tidal gravity is much more general; it can always be defined, even in non-static scenarios where there is no useful definition of "gravitational potential", such as the expansion of the universe. For another, "gravitational potential" can be present in flat spacetime, where tidal gravity is zero; the standard twin paradox scenario, where the traveling twin has to fire rockets to turn around, is an example of this.
In the case of the standard twin paradox scenario, where the traveling twin has to fire rockets, what breaks the symmetry is that he feels acceleration, even if only for an instant, while the stay at home twin is in free fall the whole way. That's all there is to it.
In the case of my variant scenario, both twins are in free fall the whole time, so whatever it is that breaks the symmetry, it can't possibly be acceleration. So the two cases are different, and have to be analyzed differently. In this case, what breaks the symmetry is simply that the two twins are traveling on different worldlines in a curved spacetime, and those worldlines can have different lengths even though they are both geodesics.