The idea that connections are related to forces seems to me to be implicit in Einstein's equivalence principle. When we look at the famous Einstein elevator experiment, Einstein is saying that what is in Newtonian physics is a force, can be replaced by a system in which there is no force, the accelerating elevator.
What is it in the accelerating elevator that directly replaces the force? Physicists often talk loosely about "inertial forces", but it's long been known and taught that "inertial forces are fictitous forces". The whole idea of being "in" an accelerating elevator is just a change of coordinates, from an inertial reference frame to the non-inertial reference frame of the elevator.
Forces that transform as a tensor can't possibly suddenly appear if we change coordinates. But yet, we are trying to replace something that is in Newtonian physics, a force, with these "fictitious" forces.
We need something with the right units (meters/second^2). And, this something, in order to replace force, must appear directly to the equations of motion, which would be the geodesic equations in flat space-time. And it can't transform as a tensor, or it couldn't suddenly appear in our elevator just because we changed to elevator coordinates. The obvious candidate is the Christoffel symbol. I believe Einstein knew this, though I don't have any specific references (I wish I did - it can be hard to find references for the really simple stuff, alas).
I do have to agree that I haven't seen much on the topic in modern textbook, but the "connection" between connnections and the Newtonian idea of gravity is so compelling that I have to wonder why it's omitted. My best guess is that the whole topic of forces has been discounted - if you look up "force" in the usual GR textbook, you won't find much.
One might find an occasional reference that if you have an object moving under the influence of a force (such as an electric charge in both an electric field) "that you just add it to the geodesic equation, perhaps, which rather emphasizes the close relation between Christoffel symbols and forces.
The next point is showing that the Christoffel symbols transform properly - not under general coordinate transformations, we already know that they can't. But that they transform as tensors under some _restricted_ coordinate transformations. This is (or should be) very reminiscent of the way we insist on using "inertial frames" in Newtonian mechanics - we can't use just any old coordinate system (until we get to Lagrangian mechanics), we need to use specific ones.
The mathematics involved are not terribly complex. One starts off with the observation that a Christoffel symbol had 16 components, and a force has 4, one of which is zero for a 3-force. So we need to ignore most of the Christoffel symbols.
The next question is whether the 3 we pick out, ##\Gamma^x{}_{tt}, \Gamma^y{}_{tt}, \Gamma^z{}_{tt}## transform properly, and what restrictions are required.
I worked this out the necessary conditions for this approximation to be true myself in a short post. I really wish I would have seen something like this in a textbook, I don't feel like anything I've been doing should be "breaking new ground".