Karol said:
Sorry i was misunderstood. i read every post.
I meant the proof involving ##~L = r \theta~##, not the limits method.
I looked at the link Ray gave me, it's good but it's with the limits.
I don't understand your objection. Your question was: what is the limit and how do you prove it? The link answered all of that, exactly as you requested.
You can find other treatments just by trying out some key words in Google. I found the articles by entering "limit of sinx/x", but others might work too. Just experiment!
However, I regard many of these arguments as "proofs" rather than proofs; that is, they leave a lot of holes that are not easy to fill in rigorously. That is why in my original response I mentioned "intuitive arguments", which rely on the belief that the length of an arc and the length of a subtended segment have ratio 1 in the limit of small angle. Such arguments are OK in an introductory calculus course, but are unsatisfactory in a more rigorous treatment (unless some other relevant properties of arc-lengths have been proved first---not likely in an intro calculus course).
I think that area-based arguments are more sound, because if one region is entirely contained between two others, its area lies between the inner and outer areas. For arc-lengths, that type of property does not apply directly: if a curved arc lies between an inner polygonal and outer polygonal path, the arc is not "part" of either, and it is not 100% clear that its length lies between the inner and outer lengths. I remember seeing an entire, rather rigorous graduate-level book devoted to such matters as the foundations of arc-lengths, surface areas and the like. Apparently, a number of eminent early 20th century mathematicians were bothered by this issue, and wrote research papers on the topic. Unfortunately, I only saw the book in a library about 30-40 years ago, and no longer remember its title or author.