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ZombieFeynman
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I consider myself an extroverted person. I am comfortable interacting with large groups of people. As a teaching assistant, I am comfortable in front of a class. Recently though, I have developed a strong sense of panic before giving talks. Today I was slated to give a talk in front of a rather large group (~40) of fellow grad students. I know most of them and I would feel fine talking to any of them. The talk was on part of my research and it was well practiced. The material is very familiar to me. I was calm and collected walking to the talk, but as I stood in front of the room waiting for the talk to begin I began to feel nervous. I suffer from bouts of anxiety; nervousness is not foreign to me. I have seen a doctor about panic attacks, as I suffer from them on occasion. Sure enough, as I stood in front of the seminar room, my hands began shaking, I couldn't breath, my heart was pounding, and worst of all I couldn't talk. I had to leave the room, to the astonishment of the audience and to my utter shame. I talked to the organizer afterward to apologize and he seemed rather understanding (more understanding than I may have been in his stead). This was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life.
This is the first time this has ever happened (more than just preliminary nervousness) and I have given many talks before, most of them much more important than the one today. I am supposed to be giving a talk this year at the APS March Meeting in Denver. A similar occurrence there would be devastating and could have long term detrimental impact on my career as an academic. I am not seeking medical or psychological advice; I plan on talking to professionals about this. I am simply interested to hear others folk's experiences on this issue. Have you given talks before and broken down? Have you had troubles with anxiety before giving a talk? How have you coped if you have experienced this?
ZF
I consider myself an extroverted person. I am comfortable interacting with large groups of people. As a teaching assistant, I am comfortable in front of a class. Recently though, I have developed a strong sense of panic before giving talks. Today I was slated to give a talk in front of a rather large group (~40) of fellow grad students. I know most of them and I would feel fine talking to any of them. The talk was on part of my research and it was well practiced. The material is very familiar to me. I was calm and collected walking to the talk, but as I stood in front of the room waiting for the talk to begin I began to feel nervous. I suffer from bouts of anxiety; nervousness is not foreign to me. I have seen a doctor about panic attacks, as I suffer from them on occasion. Sure enough, as I stood in front of the seminar room, my hands began shaking, I couldn't breath, my heart was pounding, and worst of all I couldn't talk. I had to leave the room, to the astonishment of the audience and to my utter shame. I talked to the organizer afterward to apologize and he seemed rather understanding (more understanding than I may have been in his stead). This was one of the most humiliating experiences of my life.
This is the first time this has ever happened (more than just preliminary nervousness) and I have given many talks before, most of them much more important than the one today. I am supposed to be giving a talk this year at the APS March Meeting in Denver. A similar occurrence there would be devastating and could have long term detrimental impact on my career as an academic. I am not seeking medical or psychological advice; I plan on talking to professionals about this. I am simply interested to hear others folk's experiences on this issue. Have you given talks before and broken down? Have you had troubles with anxiety before giving a talk? How have you coped if you have experienced this?
ZF