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I've been called a few things in my day (not a lot of 'em, but hey...), and "mature" seems to be a common one. So, I ask, what does it actually mean to be "mature"?
Probably being responsible is a common meaning. Along with that goes being deliberate, thoughtful, considerate, dependable, sincere, respectful, honest, using careful consideration and sound or good judgement, and basically being a decent person. Lisa!'s first definition would apply.Smasherman said:I've been called a few things in my day (not a lot of 'em, but hey...), and "mature" seems to be a common one. So, I ask, what does it actually mean to be "mature"?
Yeah, maybe he's having those bladder control issues again.tribdog said:he sure seems a bit pissy lately doesn't he?
tribdog said:he sure seems a bit pissy lately doesn't he?
Who's yommama, btw?:tongue2:yomamma said:maturity is when you realize that making thread asking about it is immature
Lisa! said:Who's yommama, btw?:tongue2:
Yep! And it's not also mature to call someone else immature even if he is!:tongue2:jimmy p said:I don't know, I was just spawned in a pool with my brothers and sisters. No, wait, that's tadpoles.
Maturity is not hijacking someone else's thread!
Lisa! said:Yep! And it's not also mature to call someone else immature even if he is!:tongue2:
Lisa! said:well, being argumentative alos couldn't be mature. So I guess I'm out of here!
I was reflecting on the qualities of a mature or developed person. One could refer to 'mature' as meaning that one has come of a certain age, i.e. seasoned or experienced.Ivan Seeking said:thoughtful, considerate, sincere...?
HONEST?
In some, perhaps many, cases - yes! Donald Trump comes to mind as an example.Ivan Seeking said:It would seem that you feel that there are many immature, old, business tycoons?
Not very mature behavior on the part of that employer.Ivan Seeking said:I had one employer who blatantly tried to shame me for my naivety, for being honest; and over nothing of consequence no less.
I more or less agree with that. One chooses to be what or who one is - certainly.Ivan Seeking said:Interesting. For me, this is more a matter of choosing what kind of person one will be rather than an issue of maturity. I believe that most adults make mature decisions to be either good people, or bad people. With every choice that we make we define who and what we are.
Astronuc said:I more or less agree with that. One chooses to be what or who one is - certainly.
I am my own judge. I often reflect on how I behave, who I am in the world, and how I and my actions affect those around me and world as a whole.jimmy p said:However you aren't the judge of your maturity. It is other people looking at your actions and deciding for themselves.
A mature person is typically emotionally stable, responsible, and able to handle difficult situations with grace. They are also able to make decisions independently and take responsibility for their actions.
Maturity can be developed through experiences and self-reflection. It involves recognizing and learning from mistakes, taking on responsibilities, and actively working on personal growth.
There is no universal measurement for maturity as it is a complex concept that differs from person to person. However, some psychological assessments may include aspects of maturity in their evaluations.
No, maturity is not solely based on age. It is a combination of factors such as experiences, emotional intelligence, and personal growth. Some people may exhibit maturity at a younger age while others may take longer to develop it.
Maturity is not a fixed trait and can fluctuate throughout a person's life. Factors such as trauma, stress, and personal struggles can affect one's level of maturity. However, with self-awareness and effort, it can be regained.