These two processes tend to create very different photon number distributions. Sunlight is pretty much blackbody radiation from a system in thermal equilibrium. If one does all the math and includes that photons are bosons, one will find that the photon number distribution for any single mode will be a Bose-Einstein distribution. This distribution has the property that it is rather smooth, the most probable photon number is always zero and the distribution is very broad, still having significant probabilities far away from the mean photon number. That gives you a very noisy light field. If you have at least a photon in some mode, the probability, that there will be more photons is very high. Therefore, you get a tendency of photons to bunch. Lasers on the other hand, emit independent (but not single!) photons. You need inversion and stimulated emission and the system is therefore far from thermal equilibrium. This process gives you a much narrower photon number distribution around the mean. It turns out, that the small amount of photon number noise present cancels exactly the effect of changing the light field by destroying a photon when you detect one, so that the light field stays unaltered.
In a nutshell, the most important difference between these two emission processes is spontaneous versus stimulated emission.
You mean the cavity QED experiments by Serge Haroche? No, he could not detect a photon without destroying it. Nobody can. He could get some information about an ensemble of identically prepared photons without destroying them by means of weak measurements. Basically, he can measure the photon number in a cavity by having atoms (far detuned from the photons - they do not absorb them) travel through that cavity. The presence of the photons introduces some phase shift in the atoms, which can be measured. However, such measurements only give you statistical information. After doing that experiment a lot of times, you can say something about the mean photon number in the cavity. However, you cannot do it just once and get a sensible result for the photon number inside the cavity during that single run.