pellman said:
You sometimes see statements regarding so-many-minutes after the big bang. Or 10^-23 seconds after the big bang. But this exactly is the event this is measuring from? How is it defined? I presume it has some definition from within the framework of general relativity.
The time t=0 is basically a matter of convenience. This time is determined by simply assuming that General Relativity is absolutely correct (no quantum gravity), the universe is composed of matter, radiation, and dark energy, and nothing else, and extrapolating back in time to the point where there is a singularity. This time is t=0.
Now, this physical picture is incorrect. We know that this simple process of extrapolating back in time cannot possibly be correct if you go far enough back, either because some other form of energy was significant for the very early universe (e.g. inflation), or because quantum gravity was important early-on, or a combination of the two. The problem is, without knowing the precise behavior of the very early universe, we can't set a "t=0" that corresponds to an actual event. So instead we just set it to a convenient time based on an incorrect model.
Fortunately, this isn't likely to be very misleading. If we imagine that the model that describes the very early universe as being inflation, for example, then a reasonable "t=0" would be the event known as reheating, when inflation ended and the classical big bang model became valid. We don't know exactly when this event occurred, but it isn't going be different from the classical "t=0" time by more than a few times [itex]10^{-30}[/itex] or so. That is small enough of a difference that it doesn't really matter much for most any later events we might deign to think about.
Other early universe models tend to have similar events that differ little enough from the classical t=0 that we don't need to worry about those differences either.
So in the end, a good way to understand t=0 is to imagine it as the time that the classical big bang theory became an accurate description of the universe, give or take a few times [itex]10^{-30}[/itex] seconds.