Edison Bias said:
When an electron is, by simple touch, stripped (due to differencies in chemical potentials, let's say) from the carpet and enters my body, I get negatively charged. This creates an electromagnetic force that counteracts more electron stripping, right?
That is correct.
Edison Bias said:
why not recombine with the positively charged "capet
You seem to assume that charges will always equalize themselves if they have somewhere to go.
That is wrong.Think about the "depletion layer" in diodes.
Because the doped semiconductors have different "chemical potentials"(which is probably the wrong term here) they will cause small layers of charges to "equalize" the "chemical potential". In other words, the system would reach equillibrium when the work done
against the electric field of the charges is the same as the work done by the difference in chemical potential. So a charge would neither gain nor loose energy by going from one point to another.
That equillibrium exists when there are two small layers of charges,
not when everything is neutral.
There likely are a few other examples from electrochemistry as well, but I don't know much about that.
One example would be batteries(or rather one part of them).
If you just put certain metals into water they will become solved ions(the surplus electrons remain on the metal).
Although they are now charged they have a lower potential energy. This continues until there is a certain voltage between the metal and the solution.
Then we again have equillibrium and no further charge flows.
What I found very strange is that these voltages are on the order of a few Volts. How can triboelectricity generate such
huge voltages ?
Why doesn't the charging continue until some point, at which the energy difference due to the voltage is equal to the energy difference due to the chemical potential and the charging stops ?
Speculation alert 2

: I might know the answer:
Lets look at this like a capacitor where the plates (almost) touch. Charges move from one side of the capacitor to the other, because of the difference in chemical potential.That stops when a certain pretty low voltage is reached.
Now imagine the capacitor to be pulled apart.No charge flows because when the voltage increases enough for charges to "want" to flow back the separation is already too great.The voltages you would get when the capacitor is pulled apart a large distance could be pretty big.
Subsequently, if you brought them back together the voltage would be pretty low again and charge would feel no incentive to flow back and neutralize.
Speculation end.
Edison Bias said:
but the electrons refuse to recombine and stays in my body until I touch something that has an enormous larger difference in charge amount and the material can even reside on an totally insulating material like a metal handle on a wooden door.
It is not about the difference in charge, but about the voltage.And while there is a high voltage between you and the carpet no charge will flow, mainly because the carpet is a horrible conductor and the reason i explained in the "speculation section" of this post.
You have to have a object that conducts well and is either connected to ground or has a relevant capacitance.
If you charged yourself and touched an insulated hanging metal lamp, you would get shocked and charges would flow onto the lamp until your potential was roughly equal. Nonetheless you haven't lost all your charge and some of your charge is now on the lamp.You could possibly still shock people by touching them and so could the lamp.
Ps : I have to do something about the way i write comments, because i feel like a spammer

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PPS:When i say potential i am usually talking about erergy per charge (something very similar to voltage) and not chemical potential