TheSpeed=DUCK! said:
From what I have found, and thanks to your info, that the atom is held by a Strong nuclear force (zwtipp05). I'm just wondering what that force was made up of. If the world is made up of atoms, our infastructure, and negative forces (electrons) repel each other, how can our world be made of atoms? Since if an atom had the same amount of protons as nue. and electrons, wouldn't that particle be neutrally charged? If a negative particle attracts a neutral one, how many "particles" make up what we are made of?
First off, the nucleus is held together by the strong force, as are the quarks within its nucleons. The nucleus and electrons are held together by electrostatic forces.
The strong force is mediated by particles called gluons which carry 'colour charge' from quark to quark and, I believe, between gluons themselves. At least, that's the model. I find something a bit fudgy about colour confinement personally, but particles in what is interpreted as 'gluon jets' have been observed (how, by the way?).
You'll find that some atoms will not attract others. These atoms are called 'inert'. Helium, argon and neon are examples. Other atoms though benefit from the fact that electrons aren't very sticky. They can move from one atom to another, giving one a net positive charge and the other a net negative charge, essentially bonding those atoms together. This force is electrostatic in nature.
Why do some atoms lose their electrons? If you look at the hydrogen atom - one proton, one electron - and visualise the electric field around the proton. It will be distributed evenly around the proton, diminishing with distance. The electron, though, is moving around the proton in this electric field, and has its own electric field. If you freeze-frame the hydrogen atom at one point and add up these two fields, you have areas where there is a field due to net negative charge, areas of neutral charge and areas of net positive charge (on the other side of the proton to the electron, for instance). To get a more evenly distributed field, more electrons would be required around the proton. But this would give the hydrogen atom a net negative charge overall. This interplay between uneven distribution of charge within the atom itself and overall net charge leads to electrons moving around between atoms which, consequently, bind together.
With more complex atoms it does become more complex. Someone above mentioned shielding. This is where an electron at a certain distance from the positive nucleus is less attracted to the nucleus than one closer because the negative charge of the closer electron slightly repels the more distant one, giving the more distant electron less attractive positive charge than the closer one has.
There are other rules of play in this game. There is a limit to how many electrons you can have in roughly the same place, called the Pauli exclusion principal. Two electrons with the same spin cannot exist in the same 'quantum state' - they feel a force, called Pauli pressure, pushing them apart. This stops one atom getting too many electrons. This force is a lot stronger than the repulsive force between electrons.
Atoms with equal protons and neutrons are considered neutrally charged. But as the electron and proton charges are equal, and the force between charges increases as distance decreases, the force between two neutrally-charged atoms is slightly repulsive. So if these atoms were rigid in their configuration, they would naturally repel. This is why you don't fall through the ground due to gravity: the slight repulsive forces between the electrons in the molecules of the ground (or whatever else you're standing on) and those in your shoes (if you're wearing any) is enough to overcome gravity. As the electrons in these molecules are whizzing around from atom to atom, it is easier to think of them as a sea of electrons washing through the molecule as a whole rather than atomic electrons, especially in metals where they do get about a bit. It is only because of the tendency of electrons to skip from atom to atom that all individual atoms in the universe don't repel each other.
How many particles? Too many to count. Or do you mean how many kinds? The simplest model is three: protons, neutrons and electrons. More complex is three also: up quarks, down quarks and electrons. If you want to get into the nitty gritty, five: up quarks, down quarks, electrons, gluons and virtual photons. Of course, we're made of just the more common and strongly interacting particles. The standard model has an abundance of them.
Anyone want to support/correct/kick me in any of those answers (my chem is rusty)? I'm trying to keep it simple.