Why Does She Avoid Eye Contact After Our Great Conversation?

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After a positive initial conversation with a girl referred to as "beta," she has since avoided eye contact and interactions, leading to confusion. The girl is described as shy, studious, and having only one friend, which may contribute to her behavior. Suggestions include continuing to engage her casually without pressure and considering whether to pursue a friendship or a romantic interest. It's noted that just because a conversation went well doesn't mean she is interested in dating. The advice emphasizes the importance of not overthinking the situation and focusing on building confidence in social interactions.
  • #61
What's 2 on your scale?
I don't dare ask what's 1...
 
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  • #62
moose said:
BTW: I define my 10 to be the most attractive looking girl I've ever seen in my life. So my definition of 10 does sometimes change... My scale is also on an exponential scale. A girl with a 5 is attractive. A girl with a 6 is quite easy on the eyes. A 7 means the girl is hotttt. An 8 is like a WOAH and are rather rare. A 9 is extremely rare and these are generally the hottest girls you see. A 10 is THE hottest girl you've ever seen in your life.

I don't agree with the numbering system, unless it applies to bra size. o:) :biggrin:
 
  • #63
radou said:
I don't agree with the numbering system, unless it applies to bra size. o:) :biggrin:

I don't dare ask what 1 means for bra size too.:shy: :-p
 
  • #64
radou said:
I don't agree with the numbering system
You've really never rated a girl using a numbering system?

unless it applies to bra size. o:) :biggrin:

Well, I suppose that's as good a numbering system as any! :wink:
 
  • #65
tehno said:
I don't dare ask what 1 means for bra size too.:shy: :-p

As a matter of fact, me neither. :-p :wink:
 
  • #66
cristo said:
You've really never rated a girl using a numbering system?

I didn't say that. :smile:
 
  • #67
radou said:
I didn't say that. :smile:

:smile: Ahh, I see, you just don't agree with it!:-p
 
  • #68
Well if ordinary guys quite sometimes use such numbering for girls ,can you imagine what male mathematicians do?:smile: :rolleyes:
 
  • #69
Shy girls are very secretive usually b/c they have something to hide or are just very to themselves, so they need some one to open up to, take her out on a date, and be as charming as you can so she'll open up to you, and once that happens, you got her. =]
 
  • #70
tehno said:
Well if ordinary guys quite sometimes use such numbering for girls ,can you imagine what male mathematicians do?:smile: :rolleyes:

Probably the same thing. :biggrin:
 
  • #71
tehno said:
What's 2 on your scale?
I don't dare ask what's 1...

We don't normally talk about anything below 5.
 
  • #72
DaveC426913 said:
"I had a virgin once. I had to go to Guatamala for her. She was blind in one eye, and she had a stuffed alligator that said 'Welcome to Miami Beach'."
- obscure movie reference (2 full points if you get it)

I think we need a hint, Dave!
 
  • #73
Robert Mak said:
Well I am in the first (university) year, so i met a girl called "beta". So i introduced myself to beta and we talked like 1 hour and she laugh, etc. so we had a good conversation.

And in the next days, we crossed sometimes in the path, and she just go away without saying nothing. WTF is that...

So i had the courage again to go and talk to her again, so when i talked to her she just talk, but not seeing my eyes...

What should i do?
her behaviour is a shy girl, likes to study, silent in the class, and in the class she only had 1 friend.

I need help quicky! (i had 18 years old and she too)
Go talk to her again, and ask her out.

If that doesn't work, tell her that you will pick up Friday at 1800 (6 pm) and take her a reasonably nice place to eat. Don't keep her out late, and walk her to the door.

Don't forget to get her phone number and address.

If she says absolutely not! Move on.
 
  • #74
Me and some of my mates had actions which would rate girls in the pub - but most are x-rated :-p :biggrin:
 
  • #75
Moonbear said:
:biggrin: You're officially allowed to speak on our behalf.

And, I just can't see how that would work at all..."You study all the time for math, but I'm still doing better than you in the class. Wanna go out?" :smile: Robert, do you have a death wish? Because, unless you want to take a calculus text to the back of the head, I suggest you avoid that approach.

I'm confused by this whole thread...she's friendly but shy, you want to go out with her, but she had a boyfriend and doesn't now, and she studies all the time, so you don't want to go out with her, but you are still doing better in the class than her and you want to know if that would impress her so you can go out with her. :confused:

LOL! Girls are so confused in life! I mean, the thread's pretty simple to follow, do gals like to make life difficult?
 
  • #76
Mike628 said:
Shy girls are ... be as charming as you can so she'll open up to you, and once that happens, you got her. =]


Hehe, totally dude. Read up some jokes or something... get her to laugh...
 
  • #77
Astronuc said:
take her a reasonably nice place to eat.

McDonalds lol:biggrin:
 
  • #78
read up on jokes? why not let natural humour take its course? People are the funniest when it isn't forced humour
 
  • #79
radou said:
I don't agree with the numbering system, unless it applies to bra size. o:) :biggrin:
JasonRox said:
We don't normally talk about anything below 5.
Shouldn't it always result in an even number - a number divisible by 2?:biggrin:
 
  • #80
I don't think I like the ranking system either, it could really damage a girls self esteem (which after its gone through all the critisms of girls is fairly low usually any way)
 
  • #81
rhuthwaite said:
I don't think I like the ranking system either, it could really damage a girls self esteem (which after its gone through all the critisms of girls is fairly low usually any way)

The girl criticism is a good point. You reminded me of a few 'girl-talks' i ear-witnessed recently. Boy, girls/women sure can be tough on each other.
 
  • #82
more than you know
 
  • #83
just do what i do and TELL the girl she's going on a date with you...

it shows you can take charge, are confident, and are a jerk...3 things girls go nuts over

okay I've only done it once...but it did work
 
  • #84
rhuthwaite said:
more than you know
Yes, indeed. And to take it down one more level, we're pretty hard on ourselves. Perhaps to prepare ourselves for the more punishing levels coming up.
Social "power" is all about who gets to do the judging and who gets judged.
 
  • #85
hover said:
McDonalds lol:biggrin:
Do you have GLC over in the US?
I'll give you a rose, pull out your chair when we eat
**** I can't, 'cos In McDonalds it's a bolted seat
Don't matter 'cos I'm here with you
With a medium value meal and a chocolate sundae too
Later on I'll come and help you sign on
I'll stare into your eyes, the housing benefits gone wrong
Don't worry baby it won't take too long
I'm just sitting, I'm just waiting, I'm just writing this song
You know that, time passes and I'm loving every second
Buying chips for you is as lovely as I reckoned
You're Victoria Spice, I'm David Beckham
If you were Dellboy, I'd be the streets of Peckham
Why don't you come to me, why can't you see
My love for you is like Matt Bolan to a tree
:cool: :biggrin: :cool: :biggrin: :cool:

Safe as!
 
  • #86
Today i expressed my feelings to her, She told me that; she just want to meet new friends and she is still hurt by her boyfriend.
I feel good, that now i can continue to achieve my goals.
Sometimes I am like obsessed to find the answer.
And thanks for the help!:smile:
 
  • #87
Robert Mak said:
Today i expressed my feelings to her, She told me that; she just want to meet new friends and she is still hurt by her boyfriend.
I feel good, that now i can continue to achieve my goals.
Sometimes I am like obsessed to find the answer.
And thanks for the help!:smile:

They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends. :biggrin:

Just kidding. Thumbs up, Robert & good luck! :wink:
 
  • #88
radou said:
They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends. :biggrin:
Indeed... yeah always
 
  • #89
radou said:
They always just want to meet new friends, and they're always still hurt by their boyfriends. :biggrin:

Unfortunately, yeah, that's pretty much how it goes...but that "hurt" goes away really quickly if you meet someone you really want to date, so just wanting to meet new friends is usually exactly what it means.
 
  • #90
Should i still talk to her?, cause she's in my class... or should i never talk to her?
 

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