Why Does She Avoid Eye Contact After Our Great Conversation?

[Robert Mak]

I don't know what to do. Should i go and talk to her again (Cause if not i think that she will thougth that I am angry). But if i talk to her i will be crazy again.
lol this is too hard cause she's in my class.
Or what do you think that i should do?

Post scriptum: I am too stupid...

 

[radou]

I don't know what to do. Should i go and talk to her again (Cause if not i think that she will thougth that I am angry). But if i talk to her i will be crazy again.
lol this is too hard cause she's in my class.
Or what do you think that i should do?

After all those people giving you great pieces of advice, you still don't know what to do?

Post scriptum: I am too stupid...

You're not stupid, you're in love.

 

[verty]

Don't. It sounds like you are obsessing over someone you don't know, which is a sure sign that it has nothing to do with her specifically. You should think long and hard about why you feel as you do. Could it be something to do with being impulsive, having to get what you want? Could it be something to do with a negative reaction to her saying that she only wants to find friends, like perhaps you feel she shamed you or you must prove yourself or something?

In other words, determine what this is about because it is definitely not about her. It's certainly not love because one can't love a nondescript person, a girl in the abstract sense. What is this about?

 

[Robert Mak]

Certanly i know her not too much but enougth to be in love with her, we have talked like many times; and in my life i had never seen a girl like that.
(lol a girl who likes physics, mathematics, and she's not like the ugly smart girls)
Perphaps that's why I am obssesed...
i can't think in other thing neither study, and what can i do to be normal.

 

[radou]

Certanly i know her not too much but enougth to be in love with her, we have talked like many times; and in my life i had never seen a girl like that.
(lol a girl who likes physics, mathematics, and she's not like the ugly smart girls)

So what? If you've never seen such a girl in your life, well, that most definitely doesn't mean that you'll never see such one again, right? Think positive.

 

[Moonbear]

So what? If you've never seen such a girl in your life, well, that most definitely doesn't mean that you'll never see such one again, right? Think positive.

Precisely. And, it's not enough to be in love with her, it's only enough to be infatuated, and a one-way infatuation at that. From what you've been adding to this, I think it's best to just not talk to her if you can avoid it. And, if you can't avoid it (i.e., in class), just stick to the subject of the class and nothing more personal.

 

[cristo]

Basically, Robert, you just need to get over the girl. As radou said; think positive; you'll be sure to find girls like her. In a few weeks time you'll be like "who was she?" and you'll be wondering why you stressed so much about her.