A-wal said:
You can’t move at c relative to another object in flat space-time.
True.
A-wal said:
You don’t have to look at gravity as curvature if you don’t want to.
Technically true; you can simply avoid ever considering or utilizing the fact that tidal gravity is equivalent to spacetime curvature, and just work with tidal gravity directly without using any of the theoretical machinery of curvature. (It would be very difficult, but in principle you could do it.) But that won't change the physics. It will still be possible to reach and pass inside a black hole's horizon.
A-wal said:
The riverbed is simply SR in a gravitational field.
But SR can't be used "as is" in the presence of tidal gravity. The normal way of saying that is to say that SR assumes that spacetime is flat, and in the presence of gravity spacetime is curved. But I just said you could avoid ever considering curvature. So instead I'll discuss the limitation of SR directly as it relates to tidal gravity.
Why can't SR be used "as is" in the presence of tidal gravity? Because SR assumes that, if two freely falling objects are at rest relative to each other at anyone instant of time, they will remain at rest relative to each other as long as they both remain freely falling. In the presence of tidal gravity, however, that assumption is false. In the presence of tidal gravity, you can have two objects, both freely falling, that start out at rest relative to each other but don't stay that way, even though they both remain freely falling. So SR is simply physically wrong in the presence of tidal gravity.
You appear to think that objects moving solely under tidal gravity will not be freely falling. I'll discuss that further below.
A-wal said:
It takes energy to accelerate an object with mass.
Once again you're being careless about the word "acceleration", and also the word "energy", so I'm going to belabor those concepts some.
Suppose we drop a rock from a height, and consider the period of time during which the rock is freely falling. Assume air resistance is zero--we drop the rock in a very tall vacuum chamber, if you like. Assume also that the rock is small enough that tidal effects across it are negligible. Consider two questions: (1) What is the rock's acceleration? (2) What, if any, changes in energy are involved?
The standard GR answers to those questions are:
(1) The rock's *proper* acceleration is zero; it is freely falling. The rock's *coordinate* acceleration depends on the coordinates used; with respect to coordinates in which someone standing on the ground is at rest, the rock has a downward acceleration, but that acceleration is not felt by the rock.
(2) The rock's total energy is constant. Yes, the rock's kinetic energy increases as it falls; but its potential energy decreases by the same amount. So its total energy remains constant. (Edit: I should make clear that in the last sentence I am talking about kinetic and potential energy relative to coordinates in which the person standing on the ground is at rest. The point I was trying to make is that the individual "components" of the total energy can be frame-dependent--for example, the rock's kinetic energy does *not* change relative to an observer that is freely falling along with the rock. But the total energy, kinetic plus potential, is an invariant. I should also note that not all spacetimes even have an invariant energy in this sense; the spacetime surrounding a single gravitating body does because it has particular symmetry properties that not all spacetimes share.)
Now consider the case of a person standing on the ground watching the rock fall. Consider the same two questions. The standard GR answers for the person are:
(1) The person's proper acceleration is nonzero; the person is not freely falling, and feels the acceleration (more properly, the acceleration times his mass) as weight. The person's *coordinate* acceleration, relative to the ground, is zero, but that doesn't stop him from feeling weight.
(2) The person's energy is constant. He remains at the same height and doesn't move, so neither his kinetic nor his potential energy change.
So here we have two objects, one freely falling (zero proper acceleration) and one feeling weight (nonzero proper acceleration). But they both have constant energy. So how, again, does it require energy to accelerate something?
A-wal said:
Tidal force means that the front end is pulling the back end along even though the object is in free-fall. It’s mass will create drag which would be felt as weight.
Did you read in my last post where I talked about bodies with internal structure and subject to internal forces? That's what you're talking about here. The force experienced by each end of an extended object, in response to the other end "pulling it along" or "holding it back", is *not* tidal gravity. It's the internal forces between the atoms in the object. Those atoms, individually, are *not* in free fall; they have a nonzero proper acceleration (because they're being pulled on by other atoms), and they feel weight.
If the object as a whole is in free fall (i.e., if the only *external* force acting on it is gravity), then its center of mass will move just as if the internal forces inside the object didn't exist; i.e., the center of mass will be in free fall. So the center of mass of the object can be considered to be moving solely under the influence of gravity. But the object as a whole cannot be if you insist on considering its internal structure.
The reason I insist on making this distinction is that tidal gravity can be observed with two neighboring objects that have no connection between them. For example, consider two rocks dropped from a height at the same instant of time (at that instant, they are mutually at rest), one slightly higher than the other. The rocks will separate--the lower one will fall faster than the higher one, even though they are both in free fall, and the distance between them will increase. But the lower rock is not pulling the higher one along. They are both in free fall and there is no force between them. Yet they still separate. *That* is tidal gravity. And since, as I noted above, such a situation, with two freely falling objects, initially at rest relative to each other, not staying at rest, simply cannot be modeled in SR. That's why we need GR to deal with gravity.
A-wal said:
I thought tidal force is the spatial rate of change of the acceleration?
Only in the Newtonian approximation, when gravity is weak. Not in general. Yes, it's counterintuitive, but it's true.
A-wal said:
I’ve already said that in this example they are all outside the horizon. They lead all the way up to the horizon and you would be traveling at c relative to the one at the horizon.
Two points. First, there is no "hovering" observer at the horizon (because such an observer would have to move at the speed of light to "hover"), so there is no actual observer that ever sees a freely falling object moving inward at c. And inside the horizon, there are also no "hovering" observers (since not even moving at c will allow you to "hover"; you would have to move faster). So there is no observer anywhere that ever sees a freely falling object moving past him at c or faster.
Second, yes, the speed at which successive "hovering" observers will see a freely falling object fall past them does approach c as the horizon is approached. But it never reaches c, because there are no hovering observers at or inside the horizon. So again, there is no observer anywhere that ever actually sees a freely falling object moving past him at c or faster.
In other words, there's actually no problem. You would like to claim there is, but the laws of physics don't say what you think they say. They only say that two objects can't move faster than c relative to each other *locally*--when they're in the same local piece of spacetime, so they can directly observe each other's relative velocity. The laws do *not* say, and never did say, that an object in one region of spacetime can't move "faster than c" relative to another object in a different region of spacetime.
A-wal said:
Why can’t proper acceleration (as in acceleration from energy rather than mass) be thought of as curved space-time?
Let's continue what I started above, and stop talking about "curved spacetime" since that term seems to produce confusion. Since curved spacetime, in standard GR, is equivalent to tidal gravity, let's just substitute the term "tidal gravity" for "curved spacetime" and ask your question above again. The question then is, why can't proper acceleration be thought of as tidal gravity? And the answer is, as I've said a number of times, that tidal gravity can be observed with objects that are in free fall and have no proper acceleration. So they can't possibly be the same thing.