ZapperZ said:
Until you can actually define and then describe how an "inertial mass" is measured, and then show that such a definition is applicable to a photon, then this whole mess is moot and not relevant to the OP.
With great pleasure. Thanks for good question.
Let us start with simple situation, and then, if necessary, make a generalization for relativistic case.
In non-relativistic case in order to find INERTIAL mass, we should just apply a FORCE to an object and make measurements of the force and the ACCELERATION. Then we can find INERTIAL mass from expression
F = Mi * a
Now the question is how we can apply a force to photon. A photon is electricaly neutral and I do not want deal with gravitation. OK! I have an idea. Consider a MIRROR, which reflects 100% of all incident particles, does not matter electrons, photons, neutrino, superstrings, Higgs bosons etc. If the mirror is in rest, absolute speed of reflected particles is the same as speed of incident particles.
Now we move the mirror toward incident particles at small speed Vm. If speed of the incident electrons in non-relativistic case was Ve, then after reflection from moving mirror the speed would be (Ve + Vm).
In the case of electrons the force is comparatevely small, in the case of protons larger, that means the inertial mass of protons is larger than that of electrons. Everything works!
Now consider photons. When mirror is in rest, we already should apply some force to it in order keep it in rest. If the mirror is moving toward incident photons, this force should be larger. Let the difference between these forces be dF. Now, what is change of ABSOLUTE speed of photons in case of moving mirror? It is zero! So, additional acceleration of photons after we started to move mirror is ZERO. Substitution of our measured FINITE additional force and ZERO additional acceleration in NEWTONIAN expression gives:
dF = Mi * da
dF = Mi * 0
Since dF is finite according to our measurements, and da = 0, we immediately have result: Mi must be infinity.
Thus, we applied a REAL FINITE ADDITIONAL force to the mirror when we started to move it toward incident particles. In case of electrons the change of its absolute speed may be big. In case of protons and the same force and the same density of proton beam the change of absolute speed will be smaller, that means inertial mass of protons is larger than that of electrons. In case of photons we applied EXACTLY THE SAME ADDITIONAL force when we started to move mirror, but change of the absolute speed of photons is ZERO. That means inertial mass of photons is extremely large. I believe it is infinity.
Now we need generalization of above theory for relativistic case.