You need to look at some books to see what you like. I suspect you are not going to learn about Maxwell's equations from "Calculus for blondes".
Calculus Made Easy, by Thompson was written by a fellow of the royal society of engineers, about 80 years ago for average people to learn methods of calculus, without theory [quote: what one fool can do, another can"]. What he says about calculus is correct, and I loved that book, but it was impossible for me to understand WHY what he said was correct from the presentation there. It is short and cheap, and light.
A book like Stewart, is a step up. it is a good standard, long, heavy, expensive, calculus book that hits all the bases, but without extensive theory. In my opinion it has deteriorated in quality as new editions come out, so i would recommend an old edition, like the second edition, as better and also cheaper used.
If you are a budding mathematician or theoretical physicist, a real no nonsense honors level book by a master, that really explains deeply all the ideas of calculus, is the book of Apostol (2 volumes). Many people will say it is too hard, but I used it successfully with a class of returned high school teachers, none of whom were mathematicians. One of them liked it so well, she decided to go into graduate school in math afterwards.
Probably the best overall calculus book on one and several variables, including physics applications and enough mathematical rigor for most people is the 2 volume set by Richard Courant. It is a classic, has been in print over 60 years and has never been surpassed. Go online at Amazon.com and read the raves about it from users to see for yourself.
To go straight to the several variables stuff you need for physics without waiting for years, there are cheap excellent books on the partial differential equations of physics, by excellent pedagogues that explain the ideas without the mathematical baggage.
I would not be afraid to look at Div Grad Curl and all that. As I recall it was written in the 60's by a physicist who wanted to help his students, possibly at MIT, get to the material quicker than they were doing in their math courses. The famous books by Feynman as I recall made using calculus seem easier than my math courses did.