You're asking somebody who went to school almost fifty years ago for recommendations about today's books..
Younger members here will be more up to date on current textbook technology.
Everybody sticks with the books he used in college.
My calculus book was "Calculus with Analytical Geometry" by Thurman S Peterson
Over the years I came to appreciate just how practical it was.
The chapters alternated - one chapter would introduce a concept and the next chapter was real world applications of it. That was great for engineering curriculum. In the 1990's my younger co-workers marveled at its usefulness for solving problems.
I see there's at least one copy (besides mine) still in existence:
http://www.abebooks.com/servlet/Boo...9&searchurl=an=peterson+thurman+s&bsi=0&ds=30
My physics book was "University Physics" by Sears and Zemansky, the editopn with plain brown cover ~1960.
http://www.abebooks.co.uk/servlet/B...sears+zemansky&sortby=3&tn=university+physics
It too was packed with practical real world problems.
An important course for you will be control system theory. It is based on the math of feedback systems which Descatre stumbled across. It remained shelved as just a math curiosity until WW2 when the German scientists revived it for their rocket programs - hence the phrase "Rocket Science".
My textbook was by Charles Dorf and frankly it was abstruse. He's still writing them and I must assume he's got better at his explanations.
I bought the Schaum's outline and found it more to my liking than his early text.
Learn that course well even if you have to take it twice.
Since it looks like we'll continue to power civilization with electric motors, I will suggest you take at least DC and AC motors, and one course that introduces three phase power. Even the lowly washing machine motor is now a three phase beast driven by computer synthesized power, encircled by a microcomputer feedback control system . (Try a search on "TI motor control IC's". You've headed into a fascinating field.)
Mother Nature is analog. Analog circuits are easy(so long as you keep a good grasp of terms "ground"& "circuit common" and the difference between them), and you'll learn to interface computers to them. In my day control was by analog computer, today you'll use embedded digital computers solving the same equations. If they offer a lab course in analog computing take it - it'll sharpen your skill at differential equations.
You learn 100X more and faster by
doing than by
reading about doing.. I strongly encourage you to buy a set of shop manuals for your automobile and one of these $49 code readers, or a PC interface . Learn your car's computer system, the location and function of every single sensor.. It'll be great hands on and a skill exceedingly useful for rest of your life.
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