alw34 said:
Relative speed does distort space time. Is there a better word than 'distort'??...
because length contraction and time dilation are used to explain how the two way speed of light is the same for all inertial observers. In other words, the speed of light is the constant, not length and not time duration among different inertial observers.
You're missing the point that relative motion does not distort spacetime, but gives a different view of it. The analogy is with different observers viewing an object in space. If one observer looks from a different angle then their view of the object is different from the other observer. But the object itself is not changed by being looked at from a dfferent angle.
If, however, the object is deformed, then all observers would agree on the deformation (although, again, they would all be viewing it from a different angle).
Relative motion is analogous to the two observers taking a different view of spacetime, from a different angle.
The other point you're missing is that there is no absolute spacetime and no absolute preferred observer. If there were, it might be fair to say that everyone moving relative to that preferred observer had a distorted view of absolute spacetime. But, there is no preferred observer. Moreover, every inertial observer is moving with every possible velocity relative to some other inertial frame, so how would you quantify the distortion? To every inertial observer, spacetime is flat and undistorted (in SR). Albeit pseudo-Euclidean.
Finally a thought experiment. Two observers are moving relative to each other in an area of SR spacetime. Let's agree for a moment that spacetime is distored by their relative motion. Is it distorted for one, the other or both? Let's assume it must be both. They both agree "spacetime is distorted". One of them vanishes. Leaving just one observer. What does he now conclude? That spacetime is still distorted? Or, that some mysterious force has not only removed his companion but reshaped all of spacetime? In what way does spacetime change by an additional observer being added or removed? The answer is, of course, not at all. Spacetime is not affected by the number of observers, nor their relative motion. If spacetime is curved, it's curved whether or not anyone is moving relative to anyone else.
In fact, you could tidy up that last thought experiment by having one observer, who simply imagines an inertial reference frame moving with respect to himself. By imagining such a reference frame, how can that distort spacetime? Spacetime is unchanged no matter how many reference frames you imagine on it.