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there is no good way to do this but, I am in a situation where i think i need to leave it...
okay, its been just over a year and it just doesn't feel right. i don't love her, she doesn't love me. at least she never said it and at this point if she did, id be quite freaked out. it feels the as it did when we first started hanging out, even before we were dating. almost like were friends with benefits.
i mean, i care for her, i really do but, more as a friend. here's where it sucks because i want to still be her friend. she helped me through a lot of things like, she's the reason i went back to school. and i helped her with a lot too. I am close with her family and some of her friends. i don't want to loose all of that.
and, we go to the same school so ill see her all the time.
and i don't want to leave for just for that and I am sure people are probably thinking that i want to hook up with other girls and that's not it. i don't want to be involved with anyone. i finally got a good group of friends. I am trying to work as much as i can and I am trying to do as best as i can in school so i can get into a good 4 year school than grad school. but I am too nice and can't stand to hurt people, it absolutely kills me.
can anyone give me any good info? I am still a young buck and in need of mature advice
okay, its been just over a year and it just doesn't feel right. i don't love her, she doesn't love me. at least she never said it and at this point if she did, id be quite freaked out. it feels the as it did when we first started hanging out, even before we were dating. almost like were friends with benefits.
i mean, i care for her, i really do but, more as a friend. here's where it sucks because i want to still be her friend. she helped me through a lot of things like, she's the reason i went back to school. and i helped her with a lot too. I am close with her family and some of her friends. i don't want to loose all of that.
and, we go to the same school so ill see her all the time.
and i don't want to leave for just for that and I am sure people are probably thinking that i want to hook up with other girls and that's not it. i don't want to be involved with anyone. i finally got a good group of friends. I am trying to work as much as i can and I am trying to do as best as i can in school so i can get into a good 4 year school than grad school. but I am too nice and can't stand to hurt people, it absolutely kills me.
can anyone give me any good info? I am still a young buck and in need of mature advice