I strongly advise that you
do not buy an equatorial mount for your first telescope. (The telescope you linked has an altazimuth mount.) You neither want nor need an equatorial mount for a first 'scope. Equatorials are larger, heavier, and require more precise alignment. If you're not taking long-exposure photographs, there is absolutely no advantage to having an equatorial mount, and many disadvantages.
It is true that this mount (The NexStar 8i) will not be very stable, but, unless you have grand aspirations, will serve you just fine for visual use.
The computer control is very nice to have as a beginner. Even as you begin to learn the sky and begin to find things on your own, the computer can act as the world's most patient tutor.
IMO, the most important feature for a telescope is its overall convenience. The best telescope for you is the one you will use the most. If this telescope's size and weight are too much for you, or if the setup is too time consuming, you may decide to just stay home.
Many beginners like 6" to 8" Newtonian reflector telescopes on Dobsonian mounts, because they are relatively cheap, take seconds to assemble, and are very intuitive to use.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dobsonian
Other people, who are into planetary observation and want a quick "grab and go" kind of telescope, prefer small, high-quality refractors like this one:
http://www.televue.com/engine/page.asp?ID=261
We cannot really help you with your telescope purchase unless you answer these questions:
1) How much weight are you willing to lug around?
2) How much time are you willing to invest each time you set the 'scope up?
3) How much time and effort are you willing to invest in finding each object you want to look at?
4) Do you ever intend to take pictures?
5) Do you wish to learn the sky intimately? Or would you prefer to just enjoy some of the bright, pretty objects?
6) Do you have a vehicle which can comfortably carry a telescope that's bigger than a human being?
The telescope you linked, the NexStar 8i, weighs about 60 lbs, takes about 10-15 minutes to set up each time, plus about an hour to cool down to ambient temperature. It's not good for taking pictures. It also has a very narrow field-of-view, typical of Schmidt-Cassegrain designs, and thus does not lend itself well to large, faint nebulosity like the Veil Nebula.
- Warren