Well, you're right the derivative of x^2 is 2x. What does this tell you?
It tells you that if you consider the point (x,x^2) (which lies on the graph) and if you further consider the tangent to the graph at this point, the slope of the tangent will be 2x.
For example, the point (3.9) lies on the graph because 3^2 = 9. If you draw a tangent to the curve at the point (3,9) ths tangent has slope 6 because 2*3 = 6.
Well now you're asked to find equations for some line. What do you know about the lines in questions? Well, they should pass through the point (1,-3). What else do you know? Well, they should be tangent to the curve. Quite a lot of information you can use to determine the equations of the lines.
So I suggest the following.
Write down the general equation for a line
y=mx+b
What does it mean that this line passes through (1,-3)?
Now you have the line and the parabola. These two cuves might intersect in two points, in one point or they might not intersect at all. Which of these three possibilities corresponds to the line being a tangent?
If the line y=mx+b is a tangent to your parabola, it has to be a tangent
at some point. It will be important to calculate that point. You know that the slope of the line must be equal to the derivative of the parabola
at that point.
EDIT:
There is an even easier method. Can you write down the general equation for a line passing through (1,-3)? This will be a one-parameter family of lines, meaning there is only one piece of information necessary to specify the line. You can think about that as the direction of the line, you know one point, namely (1,-3) then it seems reasonable that the line is determined by one number, for example its slope

Then you can take the general expression of this line and calculate where it interesects with the parabola, which will be some quadratic equation in x. Then you should think about how many solutions you want .. zero, one or two. This gives you an equation for the parameter of the line with two solutions and you're done.