Thanks Pete!
@mfb Consider this:
Two identical positive charges are moving towards each other head-on. As viewed from one frame, both charges come to rest simultaneously at the distance of closest approach. In this frame, the total momentum is always zero.
At their closest approach, draw a line connecting both charges. This line is not parallel to the x-axis, it is at a certain angle.
The direction of the x-axis is defined by the velocity vector of another inertial frame. Now, transform to that frame.
At the point of closest approach, both charges were separated by a certain x-distance. When there is an x-separation of simultaneous events in one frame, the events will no longer be simultaneous in another frame.
Since the line was not parallel, we can consider the momentum in the transverse direction. There will be some point in time for both charges when their transverse momentum drops to zero. However, due to the relativity of simultaneity, one charge will reach zero transverse momentum before the other.
So the total transverse momentum in the 2nd frame will never be zero.
Also, when we consider that the total transverse momentum in the first frame was always zero, we will find that in the 2nd frame the total transverse momentum won't be constant.