I was thinking about this post and #24 and I have to say that I don't understand your objections.
TrickyDicky said:
It is comforting to see others share the concerns I raised in #24 about the problems of considering a charge as free-falling and how to distinguish it from a neutral particle in that case.
Neglecting backreaction there seems to be no distinction.
TrickyDicky said:
According to GR ... test charges follow geodesics ...
Yes, neglecting backreaction they follow geodesics.
TrickyDicky said:
? Whether they radiate or not (defined via a 1/r term) is not only a matter of the worldline of the charge itself but depends crucially on the oberver's frame and on global aspects of spacetime. So I can't they 'yes', I have to say 'it depends'.
TrickyDicky said:
It is also discouraging that there seems not to exist a practical way to decide this experimentally.
Yes, unfortunately.
In #24 you are writing
TrickyDicky said:
I can see the logic of your reasoning, but there seems to be a circular element to all this, at least the way I perceive it. When it is demanded the absence of ext. EM fields which is what I'd understand neglecting back-reaction means, how exactly is one still dealing with a charge in the context of curved spacetime.
There should not be any circular argument. You determine the worldline, then you fix a reference frame and calculate the 1/r term w.r.t. this reference frame.
[perhaps there's the possibility to calculate some kind of energy loss which could be defined w.r.t. a small spherical shell, but I doubt that is is possible in general]
TrickyDicky said:
Is it correct to equate in the context of curved spacetime geodesic motion with free-falling?
Of course yes (in the absence of other external fields). This is related to the fundamental principles of GR.
TrickyDicky said:
If yes, I would say backreaction can't be neglected and a charge cannot be considered free falling by definition.
To be clear about that: backreaction means an effect of the el.-mag. field created by the charge in its own worldline. This goes beyond GR, of course.
Your reasoning here is a bit strange. It's not that the question if free-fall corresponds to geodesic motion determines whether one can neglect backreaction, but that backreaction may cause deviations from free-fall i.e. from geodesic motion.