honestrosewater said:
BTW didn't mean to offend anyone. Sorry if I did
Don't worry, you're cool.
honestrosewater said:
What is the purpose of the mentors, then? Perhaps "force" is not the best word. Maybe influence, suggest, guide, mentor ;)
Do you think there is something wrong with trying to convince someone else to agree with you? Or would you have to make a distinction between *convincing* and *just setting forth an argument, plainly*? Where would you draw that line?
The chosen mentors are supposed to keep discussions on track, and make sure that information cited is accurate. In a forum debate, and I'd add especially at a science site, I think the ideal is to try to "make the case." That is, we support our assertions with evidence and logic. Sometimes people just state what they believe without supporting it, in which case you can ask them to "make their case."
honestrosewater said:
Because who's to say what's good? Or because the one in power must draw the line for him/herself?
You raise an interesting point because almost all human interaction situations involve authority figures of one sort or another. We definitely need that to achieve group goals, avoid chaos, or prevent bullies/tyrants from taking over. I like the maxim of "right makes might." In other words, we appoint, elect or otherwise empower those who've demonstrated they will best serve the needs of the group.
honestrosewater said:
What if a parent enjoys beating their child and doesn't care about your thoughts or observations?
One way to look at modern politics, which is essentially democratic, is that it is a way to manage power for the good of the people. One value most of us accept, for instance, is that the weak or innocent need to be protected. In a democracy, we as a group have enough power to decide we won't tolerate parents beating their children (if we find out about it of course). So in terms of stopping abusive parents, it doesn't matter if they care about my "thoughts or observations," we are going to stop them if we can, just like we will stop criminals from murdering or stealing. Again, this is a "right makes might" situation, not power abuse (ideally at least . . . people on a power trip in child protection services could, and have, abuse the power they've been entrusted with).
Keep in mind I am not suggesting that power per se is the problem; in this particular situation I'm talking about how people in power tend to believe their opinions, wishes, needs, etc., hold more weight simply because they are mighty. It is often manifested in the person through arbitrary, self-referenced or sell-serving decisions. Those in power who've used it for the benefit of humankind have been tremendously helpful to us all.
There is another kind of power abuse that happens which isn't exactly intentional. Consider Spain's conquest of areas of the Americas where religion was forced on the native populations. They just assumed they were right, and the indians needed religion. I am sure lots of the priests believed they were doing the "right" thing, when really they were stepping on an individual's right to decide such things for himself.
I don't think it is easy to avoid power abuse; the more power one has, the more difficult it seems to stay humble and respectful of others.