nikkkom said:
I think the Stern–Gerlach experiment is a better one to shine some light on this issue, especially the triple-SG experiment.
In 3-SG, the middle SG apparatus clearly "does something" to the silver atoms, since it clearly affects what happens at the last SG apparatus. IOW, to me this experiment seems to be an experimental proof that collapse is real.
If there are no irreversible operations by any Stern-Gerlach apparatus, you should be able to combine all the beams back before the last apparatus and show they are still coherent, which is a prediction different from collapse in which coherence is lost.
I have not actually worked it out for 3SG (so maybe my comments don't hold for 3SG), but you can find a simpler example where the beams are recombined after a single SG in Ballentine's textbook (
https://www.amazon.com/dp/9810241054/?tag=pfamazon01-20, section 9.5). I think the single SG example is good enough, since what you seem to be saying is that even a single SG causes collapse. I don't normally recommend Ballentine, because it is such an erroneous book. Anyway, Ballentine actually uses this to say that collapse after a measurement is wrong. Ballentine is wrong, because a (strictly alone) SG apparatus implements a unitary operation. Measurement requires an irreversible macroscopic mark to be made. So while Ballentine is right that there no collapse by an SG apparatus, he is wrong about the lack of collapse after measurement because there is no measurement either.
In order to have measurement in an SG apparatus, the apparatus cannot be strictly alone. At the quantum level, one can put in a measuring ancilla, and trace out the ancilla. A more careful treatment of the SG experiment than Ballentine's erroneous discussion can be found in
http://arxiv.org/abs/quant-ph/0306072 (see Figure 1, where the SG apparatus is not strictly alone, but includes a detector).
Edit: Also, just in case there is any misunderstanding: the wave function is not necessarily real, and neither is collapse. So no experiment can "prove" collapse, rather the wave function and collapse are just tools to calculate the probabilities of events. Within Copenhagen which is where collapse is usually used, the events are real, but the wave function and collapse are not necessarily real. As long as observations match the predictions, we accept the wave function and collapse as valid tools.