TylerH said:
I've noticed an interesting observation about how the lives of all the people in my elementary AIG (academically intellectually gifted). Out of the 11 of us, the only two not to go to college came from very poor homes. (Even from the beginning, only 4 of us were the kids of a doctor/dentist/small business owner). Not that they couldn't pay. They had the same local scholarship I do. What I would like to ask is: why, in the absence of financial barriers, do poorer people have less success in doing well? Or do they? I admit my sample size is very small. I'm only observing and suggestion a hypothesis, not saying that my observation proves my hypothesis.
The problem seems to be that it is isolating. Success would tend to separate them from their peers. They would be living amongst an alien culture.
Writer Jim Bishop was successful, moved amongst high status social circles, and hated it.
Singer Iggy Pop grew up in a trailer park, was class valedictorian, then dropped out because he couldn't stand the culture he found in college.
Richard Feynman always had a sort of chip on his shoulder and never really felt comfortable in academia. He hung out with hookers in Vegas a lot. He once said winning the Nobel Prize was a "pain in the ***."
The movie "Good Will Hunting" is fiction, but it is about this sort of thing. The star is a genius but he doesn't want to leave the impoverished life he knows.
Alfred Loomis became one of the ten wealthiest men in the US, found out he couldn't stand upper class society, and spent the rest of this life as a scientist. Quite a good one, too.
I've been around very rich old money people and it is a very conformist and insulated group. I couldn't stand it no matter how much money you paid me.
Residents of slums in India often return to the slum after they make some money and move away. Life in the slum is more fun. You may be in a shack but you are never lonely.
Ben Franklin reported that Indians raised by whites always went back to the wild if given the chance. White children raised by Indians always refused to return to civilization, given the choice.
So in sum, high status isn't everything.