vanhees71 said:
For me a reference frame is first a real thing in the lab, a satellite measuring all kinds of astronomical observables, the gravitational-wave detectors of the LIGO/VIRGO collaboration. Then we have a mathematical formalism describing these observables within an assumed spacetime model, in the case of GR a pseudo-Riemannian manifold with a fundamental form of signature (1,3) or (3,1).
For me, the reference frame is not first one and then the other, it is only the mathematical formalism. Here are the reasons that I think this approach is better:
1) as the famous saying goes “the map is not the territory”. Using the term “reference frame” as you do uses the same word to refer to both the “map” and the “territory”. That is inherently confusing since they are not the same thing.
2) one set of rulers, clocks, etc (your “real thing in the lab”) can be used to define an infinite number of reference frames. So equating the frame with the real things doesn’t make sense. In principle, any set of clocks and rulers that you could use to implement one reference frame could be used to implement any other possible reference frame. Since all possible configurations of clocks and rulers can map to all possible coordinate systems or tetrads it is not at all natural to associate instances of the two as though they were integral parts of the same thing. Either can be swapped out at will without changing anything in principle, either theoretically or experimentally.
3) pedagogically this kind of mixed terminology sends mixed messages to novices who then unnecessarily struggle with questions like that from the other thread’s OP.
4) the principle of relativity states that the laws of physics are the same in all reference frames. The usage in this context refers to the mathematical form of the laws of physics, and therefore a mathematical reference frame is more natural to consider.
Finally, your arguments about why they should be considered together have been primarily either a misrepresentation of my position or an argument by authority. But I think that you dramatically misread the authorities you have presented. Einstein indicates that a frame is a mental construct in his usage of terms like “imagine”, and even the Wikipedia definition talks about “physical reference points” and not “physical reference objects”. Physical points are not material nor do physical points have mass even if they are placed on a massive material object. So I don’t interpret those authorities as in fact supporting your “map and territory” definition. I think you are misinterpreting them (although I am sure you think the opposite)
Now, I have no doubt that if you look you can find an authority who does clearly support your approach. I can also show several that do not. Argument by authority is always rather tenuous, but especially when the authorities disagree. In any case, I think your usage is a bad approach, and using it is akin to using relativistic mass. Yes it is a concept that is out there and perhaps promoted by some, but it has many disadvantages, few advantages, and engenders much confusion.