ChrisVer said:
The general FRW metric contains the scale factor as being a function of the time coordinate. The thing is that this scale factor in the metric exists because of the homogeneity and isotropy of the universe
Yes, agreed. But this by itself does not tell you how the scale factor varies with time. So you can't say that expansion is a "result of isotropy and homogeneity", because those two things together don't necessitate expansion; they tell you there's a scale factor, but they don't tell you how it changes with time.
ChrisVer said:
humans don't expand because the expansion occurs only when FRW model is applicable
I think there's something true that you're trying to say here, but you're not saying it right. As you say it, it's clearly false; the FRW model is by no means the only solution to the Einstein Field Equation which shows "expansion". See below for a better way to say the true thing that I think you are trying to say.
ChrisVer said:
These things are not true for the local systems [I don't know how to justify this correctly], because I guess, when I look on my left and on my right I don't see myself again.
Homogeneity and isotropy are not true for local systems because they are not the same everywhere and in all directions, yes. For example, if we idealize the Earth as a spherically symmetric isolated system, it clearly has a definite "center", a particular point in space that is different from all other points; and it clearly has a "radial" direction (toward or away from the center) which is different, physically, from the tangential directions. The model we use to describe this, which I'll call a "spherical mass" spacetime, reflects these physical facts by not being homogeneous or isotropic--it is spherically symmetric, but only about one point (the center).
So we could say that the Earth doesn't expand because it's described by the spherical mass spacetime, not FRW spacetime. This is similar to the statement you made that I quoted above. But it's backwards. What we should say is that the spherical mass spacetime describes the Earth, and FRW spacetime does not, because the Earth is not expanding. Just saying which spacetime describes the Earth does not tell us
why that spacetime describes the Earth, and so doesn't tell us
why the Earth is not expanding.
To see why the Earth is not expanding, we have to look at why it is well described by the spherical mass spacetime, which is static. The reason for that is that the Earth is gravitationally bound: its own self-gravity is sufficient to hold it in a static equilibrium, given the initial conditions that created it. (Those initial conditions, if we trace them back, ultimately depend on there being local fluctuations in the expansion of the universe which allowed gravitational clumping. See further comments below.) Similar remarks apply to a human, except that what holds a human together in "static" equilibrium (I put "static" in quotes here because humans, like all living things, are highly dynamic systems, but hopefully you see what I mean) is not the human's self-gravity but electromagnetic binding forces between the atoms making up the human.
The universe, by contrast, started out in an initial condition that prevented it from ever reaching a static equilibrium as a whole. (As I noted above, local fluctuations in the expansion allowed local regions to gravitationally clump into systems that could maintain a local static equilibrium.) That physical fact is why we have to use a different solution to the Einstein Field Equation, FRW spacetime, to describe the universe.