Using a contradiction to prove a statement is a valid method, but I don't understand how do you want to apply it in this case. You'll have to describe what you want to do a little more.
P.S.: I suppose you could assume that 1 + 2 + 3 + ... + n is
not equal to n(n+1)/2, and then work on that until you find a contradiction. This is possible, in principle, but it can get a bit long; normally you'd use "reductio ad absurdum" when (a) you already have an idea of the contradiction you plan to arrive to, or (b) when your initial statement looks like a "negative" statement, maybe of the form "prove that no integer exists such that ...". But even this is not really 100% true. Proof by contradiction is often a "last resort", when there is nothing else to try. The moral is, try something else first.
A typical method to prove Gauss' formula is by "mathematical induction"; if you're interested, you may want to see this video,
or this post
. . .
Just to make previous things clear (though I believe you already understood this), post#1-2 and post#4 are two
separate proofs. One proof is using ((n+1)+(n+2)+...+2n) - (1+2+...+n) = n^2 to prove Gauss' formula, and the other is using Gauss' formula to prove that ((n+1)+(n+2)+...+2n) - (1+2+...+n) = n^2. Obviously, these two arguments cannot be part of the same proof (or you'd have a circular argument: using A to prove B, then using B to prove A, which would prove nothing). Just to be clear.
(P.S.: Of course, you could use the method at the end of post#2 to prove Gauss' formula on its own, then proceed from here to prove the larger formula.) (Sorry for the extra mess.)