I think what you're looking for is the covariant derivative, which is often written using the del notation. The covariant derivative is an operator acting on tensors in the tangent spaces of a differentiable manifold, defined by means of a construction called a
connection. Given an arbitrary connection, there's no relation between the covariant derivative and the familiar del operator on Euclidean space. However, if the connection is the Levi-Civita connection (see <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Levi-Civita_connection>), then the covariant derivative can be viewed as a generalization of the flat-space del operator.
If you're working in flat space, finding a usable expression for the covariant derivative of a (0,2) tensor is simple, even in spherical coordinates. If T
ab is a (0,2) tensor, then D(T), its covariant derivative, has three indices, and we denote D(T) by T
ab;c. Regular
partial differentiation is denoted by T
ab,c (i.e., the partial derivative of the ab-component of T wrt the variable numbered c). Then
T
ab;c = T
ab,c - C
kacT
kb - C
kbcT
ak ,
where C
abc is a Christoffel symbol and the Einstein summation convention is being used. (This looks much more complicated than it really is.) In spherical coordinates (I'm using p = phi, t = theta, and r = r), the nonvanishing Christoffel symbols are
C
rpp = -r
C
rtt = -r sin
2(t)
C
ptt = -sin(p) cos(p)
C
trt = 1/r
C
tpt = cot(p)
If T happens to be totally antisymmetric (i.e., a differential form), then there are other nice notions of "differentiation" for T. The most important of these is the
exterior derivative, denoted dT. (A nice formula for the exterior derivative is dT = Alt(D(T)), where D(T) is the covariant derivative.) The exterior derivative can be combined with the Hodge dual operator to yield more del-like operators; in particular, the natural generalization of the Laplacian on flat space is the
Laplace-Beltrami operator is given by (bd + db), where d is the exterior derivative and b is the
codifferential, defined by b = *d* (* is the Hodge operator). The Laplace-Beltrami operator occurs in the curved-space version of the wave equation for electromagnetic fields. You can learn more about these operators here: <http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Codifferential#The_codifferential> (or in any good book on general relativity or differential geometry).