Well, if you find the pdf I linked fit your standards you can use that one as an start. Most of what we discuss is inside what I call the 'mind space' no matter if we can validate the theories mathematically, and experimentally. Time dilation may exist :) But your clock will always tick 'the same' to you, will it not? You might sit in a spaceship watching the universe 'die' but how do you prove that it was time dilation? Your 'history'? The theories you know about :)
I find the universe just as weird as my suggestions above shows :)
And they're only suggestions, not any proven facts.
We just have to wait a while.
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And I'm not sure about 'information'. To me it has to do with 'definitions' again :) You can either assume that there exist 'discrete events' (e.g. bits on a hard disk, or defined 'shapes' against some background.) and then define 'information' from that idea. It makes perfect sense to do so, but if what you see as 'discrete events', to me, are 'relations' taking shape, then what you call 'information' is like 'condensed states' shaped 'somewhere else'. And that is also what the Planck scale is, the place where physics 'breaks down'. Looked at my way you would have a 'SpaceTime' created out of relations, with the relations becoming our 'discrete events' and macroscopic property's or 'emergences' as they use in chaos math.
And, as I think Einstein's universe shows us, in its 'room-time plasticity' everything do become 'relations' with the only 'true reality' becoming your own unchanging 'frame of reference', no matter where you are, at the EV or on Earth :) Your clock ticks 'the same as always', and nothing really happens. Except when using your 'history', for example comparing what you see outside that 'space ship', coming to you as 'information', with what you 'remember' of how it should look before that velocity was introduced.
But don't get too excited now :)
It's just me looking at it this way, there are several other ways to define a SpaceTime.
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And thinking of it, No, my view of a 'information space' I've arrived to recently, before I felt like I guess you do, that it was too 'abstract' as a concept for 'reality'. It's just that when testing what I think I have learned against what I deem 'reality' they clashes terribly, just as my two grey do :
But now as I am there I find it quite okay, surprisingly enough. It just that I've invented this 'mind-space' helping me differ somewhat between them, otherwise I would be in a constant meltdown :) It's just like what we perceive, against what we find to be true when comparing conceptually.
ah well :)
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Try Lee Smolin's 'Three roads to quantum gravity'. I became quite happy reading it as we seemed to think in similar ways. With exception taken to 'discrete events' where he seems to find them necessary, well, maybe not? It's a nice presentation of strings, the holographic idea, etc. Made me want to write :)