Schools How can I get my recommender to submit my letter before the deadline?

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The discussion revolves around the challenges of obtaining letters of recommendation for academic applications. A user is facing delays from one of their recommenders, despite having notified all professors well in advance. They have already received acceptance from one school that required only two letters, but the outstanding letter is critical for their dream school application, which is due soon. Participants emphasize the importance of politely reminding professors about deadlines, acknowledging their busy schedules, and the need to maintain good communication. They suggest crafting a courteous reminder message that conveys urgency without being confrontational. The conversation also touches on the etiquette of recommendation letters, including whether they should be confidential and the proper submission methods. Overall, the key takeaway is that persistence and polite reminders are essential in securing timely recommendations.
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So, I asked for recommendations from 1) a professor with whom I do research, 2) a professor whose algebra class I took, and 3) a professor with whom I do research and whose topology class I took.

I notified them all before Thanksgiving, and finished my applications in early December. But one of my recommenders still hasn't finished with the letter. ONE of my schools already accepted me, since they only needed two letters anyway.

About a week ago I reminded the outstanding recommender that one of my applications is due early early January... and he replied that he'd do his letter electronically in a couple of days. But he still hasn't. What should I do? Another week and my dream school application will be considered late.
 
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The squeaky wheel gets the oil. Politely remind him again.
 
Is the recommendation document supposed to be confidential?

Should the professor send the document directly, or pass it back to me?
 
It is usually good etiquette to provide a stamped and addressed envelope to your referee if the application does not provide an electronic submission option.

And don't be afraid to bother these people. They agreed to write you a letter, so they should be on good enough terms with you. You aren't annoying; sometimes professors are extremely busy and need reminders of deadlines.
 
ych22 said:
Is the recommendation document supposed to be confidential?

Should the professor send the document directly, or pass it back to me?

First of all, when you have a question of your own that is not similar to the original post, you should start your own thread.
 
SpiffyKavu said:
It is usually good etiquette to provide a stamped and addressed envelope to your referee if the application does not provide an electronic submission option.

And don't be afraid to bother these people. They agreed to write you a letter, so they should be on good enough terms with you. You aren't annoying; sometimes professors are extremely busy and need reminders of deadlines.

I'm assuming the first part was a reply to ych22...

I'm not afraid to bother him, but I also don't want to come across as calling him out on being irresponsible. Not that he's even behaving irresponsibly! (Well, maybe--my application might have been looked at already if he'd submitted his letter).
 
Just say

Hello Prof. Procrastinator,

I know you might be busy but I would like to remind you that I need your letter of recommendation within a week. Otherwise, it will be too late and my application would be rendered useless. I deeply apologize if I am rushing you.What's-his-name

Don't let anyone hold back your dreams.
 
SpiffyKavu said:
You aren't annoying; sometimes professors are extremely busy and need reminders of deadlines.

Basically this. It's very easy to reply and say "OK, i'll get right on it." and mean it, but then forget about it completely. These are people that a juggling dozens of emails every day, and have bursting-full diaries. I know people that are so busy they have general policies to specifically not do things on the first ask, and wait for reminders. They won't mind if you just send another reminder, just explain that your deadline is incoming.
 
Fizex said:
Just say
Hello Prof. Procrastinator,
I know you might be busy but I would like to remind you that I need your letter of recommendation within a week. Otherwise, it will be too late and the letter would be rendered useless. I deeply apologize if I am rushing you.


What's-his-name


Don't let anyone hold back your dreams.

That was awesome. Especially the signature.
 

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