How Did PrudensOptimus's Dating Adventure Turn Out?

[jimmy p]

She is a beautiful, charming and intelligent woman so i should feel lucky if i get with her!

Unfortunately Tsunami, this is my final year before university so i am AT the non-uni school where i fail maths spectacularly. I like ham-acting more, its a lot of fun to blatantly overdo things, and if needs be, I'm a master! :) A bit like Prudens is "unlucky with women" (no offence Prudens) however i make more moves than he does.

Recent development, the girl i like phoned me on Saturday to ask if we could meet up at some point during the week. She is supposed to phone tomorrow so we can arrange something for wednesday or thursday so fingers crossed. If anything does happen i shall let you guys (n gals) know!

 

[expscv]

hehe omg i can't beileve that love relationship is so complicate,. it's more complicate than maths or physics.

sometimes it's like that, the one you really loved that makes u go dizzy, u might not able to be with. the one who loves u deeply , u might not feel a thing. u eventually will be with the one who is just in the middle.

i think is that

if you try to hard to love a person, sometimes it turns to be ugly.
it needs a clear head, to get a alone with a person. not to be too dizzy for it. you will
become negative .

 

[expscv]

my suggestion
it's best to assume how her feelings are, and wat she is thinking, usually not abel to predict exactly to wats real but quiet useful to make your moves, to keep her feel warm.

all i mean is that u got understand a girl first , before really let her be your girlfriend.
it you can't even understand her, than it's really hard for further relationship anyway.

for chronc if you are able to know her more, through her recent thoughts expressed in conversation , or her interest. you could easily know want she wants and her satisfaction.

btw 1 don't let her know that u r trying know everything about her. she will feel weird uncomfortable, maybe even annoying
2 don't try to everything abt her, u get confused. just know the things will help you with your relationship. but nothing abt her feeling to other ppl.
etc

 

[jimmy p]

Cheers for that, I'll keep it in mind. Well we are going to the cinema tomorrow... even if it is like, 2 hours in silence in front of a screen, the rest of the time spent with her will be quality... hopefully...

 

[Esperanto]

In my opinion, education is the reason why people have difficulties having relationships. For high school in America, you get a lunch break and five or six five minute bells to meet up (Hope it's better in England). Don't talk in class, of course. I can easily blame school for causing low self-esteem. It's their job. In addition to school crushing you, you're probably wearing deodorant that prevents you from sweating and releasing yummy pheromonies. I don't know hehe, thought it'd be interesting to say. If I were you, I should only listen to the primitive caveman grunts that should be the natural progression of your infant googoo gaagaa. I also blame our learning to talk as the cause of our lack of self-confidence and the meaninglessness my words seem to have captured innately. You know what you need? Pheromonies products. Even if they don't work, they'll boost your confidence. And about the deodorant, I know thai deodorant stones are an alternative to mainstream deodorants. They work by killing the bacteria that causes bad odor, and it works for me much better than the deodorant that suppresses sweating. Some deodorants contain perfume and pheromones, I know Axe sprays do. And if that fails, start singing, "Girls just want boys with cars and money"

 

[jimmy p]

well, i got stood up... probably could have guessed that would happen, I'm "Captain Unlucky" after all. Looking on the bright side, if I had gone out with her, I would probably have been hit by a meteorite or something...

 

[ShawnD]

Stop chasing this girl. If she would disrespect you by not even showing up, she's not worth chasing.

 

[jimmy p]

well i was supposed to pick her up, and i phoned her to make sure she was ready before i left...1.5 hours of phoning later there was still no answer.

 

[Evo]

well i was supposed to pick her up, and i phoned her to make sure she was ready before i left...1.5 hours of phoning later there was still no answer.

Awww, Chopnik. Look on the bright side, maybe something terrible happened to her.

I don't get it. She called you about getting together. Maybe there is a reasonable answer.

 

[jimmy p]

that's what i am thinking but i can't help but feel let down and disappointed!

 

[Tsu]

that's what i am thinking but i can't help but feel let down and disappointed!

Aww... My poor Chopnik! :insert crying emoticon here: Try not to let it get to you too much until you have talked to her. Poop occurs, you know. Something MUST have happened - hope it was just a minor emergency. I really don't think she would call you ('ring you up'? 'knock you up'? ) and set up a date just to stand you up (unless she is a real stinker and I don't think you'd fall for a girl who's a real stinker. ).

 

[expscv]

if you tries to understand her love her but she never did or [[[responde]]] then there is no point.

 

[jimmy p]

Awww, Chopnik. Look on the bright side, maybe something terrible happened to her.

I don't get it. She called you about getting together. Maybe there is a reasonable answer.

you were right! she had a chest infection. Seeing if we can meet up THIS week...

 

[Evo]

you were right! she had a chest infection. Seeing if we can meet up THIS week...

See, your Aunt Tsu & I knew something was wrong!

 

[jimmy p]

had a nice 1.5 hour long conversation with her tonight (thank god for contract phones) which was cool. I think she enjoys talking to me... enjoys the abuse! Anyways, we should be meeting up THIS thursday..

 

[Tsu]

Excellent! Have fun!

 

[Evo]

had a nice 1.5 hour long conversation with her tonight (thank god for contract phones) which was cool. I think she enjoys talking to me... enjoys the abuse! Anyways, we should be meeting up THIS thursday..

That's wonderful!

 

[Chrono]

had a nice 1.5 hour long conversation with her tonight (thank god for contract phones) which was cool. I think she enjoys talking to me... enjoys the abuse! Anyways, we should be meeting up THIS thursday..

I hope I have the same luck as you. I'll let y'all know what's going down when it happens. I plan on calling her tomorrow for the details on our date. Wish me luck, y'all.

 

[Chrono]

Good news, guys. I called her to confirm our date and it's on! Two weeks from Friday we will be going out.

 

[Evo]

Chrono, that's wonderful! Keep us posted!

 

[Polly]

I am very happy for you. ENJOY!

 

[Trogdor]

guurrrrl

aww I am so lonely. haha jks. I do have this one girl tho whos a good friend and we make fun of how we're always so awkward around each other, which makes it less awkward and me less nervous b/c I know she's just as nervous as me. so for people who say its not kool to be nervous, it is. haha
peace

 

[expscv]

hoho awesome happy times

 

[Miles]

TROGDOR! So your the one that took the name I was going to get! I shale have my REVENGE!

 

[Evo]

The ideal dating situation for me is to date someone that lives 8000 miles away and only see them once every 2-3 years. You definitely don't get on each other's nerves.

 

[The_Professional]

The ideal dating situation for me is to date someone that lives 8000 miles away and only see them once every 2-3 years. You definitely don't get on each other's nerves.

Sounds like the perfect marriage.

 

[Chrono]

The ideal dating situation for me is to date someone that lives 8000 miles away and only see them once every 2-3 years. You definitely don't get on each other's nerves.

I doubt I could that. Of course, emotions do get out of hand when you've been apart for that long.

Since y'all are so interested the date is exactly two weeks from today. I just got the tickets today. Here's what I'm thinking of doing: The show doesn't start until 7:00 so I'll pick her up (once I learn how to get there) at around 5:00 and take her out to eat. Where, I haven't yet decided. After that it's off to the show. It's not much, but it's a good start, I think. I'm also thinking of, since her birthday is that following week, getting her some flowers. I'm still debating if that will be a good idea or not.

 

[jimmy p]

talking of "dates" the meeting with my girl was ok i think, not much advancement on the situation but we did get to talk a lot which was cool. I have been invited out with her and her mates on Monday which can't be too bad, means she wants me to meet her friends (approval?) who knows...

 

[Chrono]

talking of "dates" the meeting with my girl was ok i think, not much advancement on the situation but we did get to talk a lot which was cool. I have been invited out with her and her mates on Monday which can't be too bad, means she wants me to meet her friends (approval?) who knows...

Looks like both our lucks are changing for the better.

 

[jimmy p]

I doubt I could that. Of course, emotions do get out of hand when you've been apart for that long.

Since y'all are so interested the date is exactly two weeks from today. I just got the tickets today. Here's what I'm thinking of doing: The show doesn't start until 7:00 so I'll pick her up (once I learn how to get there) at around 5:00 and take her out to eat. Where, I haven't yet decided. After that it's off to the show. It's not much, but it's a good start, I think. I'm also thinking of, since her birthday is that following week, getting her some flowers. I'm still debating if that will be a good idea or not.

Sounds like a plan... maybe do i trial run of her house or something just so you don't end up in another state or something... hmmm food-wise, don't take her out somewhere majorly expensive, after all, its only first date (is it?? if not, ignore me) and for her birthday, i would see how this date goes before you buy her anything.