A photon is a photon and neither a classical wave nor a classical localized particle. It's much less the latter than the former in some sense.
The only way to really understand photons is relativistic quantum field theory, i.e., quantum electrodynamics.
Qualitatively one can roughly say that in many cases like the one depicted in #1 you can think about the intensity of the em. radiation calculated by classical electrodynamics, normalized to 1, gives the probability to register a photon on the one or the other detector.
Using classical em. waves (quantum-field-theoretically these are no single-photon states or any state of a fixed photon number but a socalled coherent state, and the more intense you make this state the more it behaves like a classical em. wave) you'd simply get 50% of the intensity at D1 and 50% intensity at D2. If you repeat the experiment with a single-photon source, this single photon occurs either completely at D1 or completely at D2. You can never have the situation that it occurs in both detectors, somehow split in half. QFT tells you that a single photon state in some sense is the minimal intensity of an em. wave with a given frequency you can have.
The only way to split a true single-photon state in two other photons is in non-linear optics, where you have a material where you can use high-intensity laser fields such that the usual linear-response approximation (the usual linear constitutive laws you learn about in the classical-electromagnetism lecture like ##\vec{D}=\epsilon \vec{D}## etc.). In non-linear optics it can happen that one photon out of the laser beam gets converted by the interaction with the excited medium to two photons, but both photons have lower frequencies than the original one, i.e., because of energy conservation the original frequency is the sum of the two frequencies of the new photons.
Within the linear realm of quantum optics there's no way to "split a photon" into two. A single photon is either registered at a detector or it's not registered. With a single photon in the initial state you cannot have two detectors registering the photon simultaneously.