You still have a sign error in post #6, because it is ##n^2 < \frac{1}{4-\varepsilon}##. Anyway, the entire structure isn't optimal. The sequence is never negative, so how should the limit be? You have already said it:
fishturtle1 said:
If ##L## is the limit, we have for all ##\epsilon > 0##, there exists ##N## such that ##n \in \mathbb{Z}## and ##n > N## implies ##\vert \frac{1}{n^2} - L \vert < \epsilon.##
So what to do? We have an arbitrary epsilon given, a
guessed limit ##L##, here we have ##L=0##, and we need to name an ##N=N(\varepsilon)## such that for all greater ##n## the distance of sequence elements from the limit is smaller as our given range ##\varepsilon##. So we have to set ##\mathbf{N}=N(\varepsilon)##
beforehand. The structure of the proof therefore goes:
Let ##\varepsilon > 0## be arbitrary and set ##N=N(\varepsilon) := \ldots## Now show
$$
\forall n> N(\varepsilon)\, : \, | \dfrac{1}{n^2}-0| < \ldots < \varepsilon \quad (1)
$$
This is the final result. To find ##L=0##, we have to guess, which is done by looking at the sequence: ##1,\frac{1}{4},\frac{1}{9},\frac{1}{16},\frac{1}{25}\ldots## which makes it plausible, that ##L=0##. Once we know that, we can use it in other cases where ##\frac{1}{n^2}## occurs. The more tools and examples we gathered, the more limits we can
guess.
The other part is to find ##N=N(\varepsilon)## which I like to write as ##N(\varepsilon)## or ##N_\varepsilon## because it depends on
##\varepsilon## and isn't a fixed number ##N##. To me this is a source of mistakes. If it depends on a variable, then it should be noted. A general rule, which can help to avoid a lot of mistakes. Anyway. Now in order to find it, we write the inequation we are looking for:
$$| \dfrac{1}{n^2}-0| = \dfrac{1}{n^2} < \dfrac{1}{N_\varepsilon^2} < \dfrac{1}{N_\varepsilon} \leq \varepsilon$$
This means, that ##N_\varepsilon \geq \dfrac{1}{\varepsilon}## and ##N_\varepsilon < N_\varepsilon^2##. Since ##N_\varepsilon## has to be a natural number, the first condition is achieved be the ceiling function: ##N_\varepsilon = \lceil \dfrac{1}{\varepsilon} \rceil ## and the second by the requirement, that ##N_\varepsilon > 1##. Thus we set ##N_\varepsilon := \operatorname{max}\{2,\lceil \dfrac{1}{\varepsilon} \rceil\}##. This way, we have deduced the requirements for ##N_\varepsilon## and we can write down ##(1)##.
Note that the ceiling function only allows a less or equal, but as we had some proper less before, we can guarantee a proper less for ##|a_n-L|< \varepsilon##.
This is basically the full solution, because I used this simple example to demonstrate how those proofs are structured and how the logic goes. I really suggest, that you go through this to comprehend the logic behind. Especially the details with the maximum, and the ceiling function often occur in such proofs. I bet you would have forgotten, that the inequality above (##N < N^2##) is wrong for ##N=1##. We could have done the proof with less or equal, too, because we already had a proper less in our line, but I wanted to demonstrate, how easy it is to overlook such details and even more, that there is no need to be as close as possible with your ##N_\varepsilon##. Make it as big as you like in order to make things easier, e.g. to get rid of the root, resp. square. There is no prize for the smallest ##N_\varepsilon## possible. Any ##N_\varepsilon## will do, and the bigger it is, the faster a proof can be read.