There is no such definition.
An "event" in this context (cosmological expansion) is a point in space-time. Events are not Newtonian.
We use Newtonian physics in circumstances where it is useful.
i.e. where the difference between the prediction from Newtonian models and reality is smaller than the uncertainty in our measurements.
No - I did not agree that energy is created - I said that the conservation of energy
that you are used to does not hold for GR. This is why you have to be careful about mixing ideas from different models.
There are other conservation laws related to the stress-energy tensor. Bottom-line: you need to learn more about general relativity before continuing this line of speculation.
Note: what counts as "big" depends on the scales used.
Your own calculation has the cosmological drift of Saturn being about 200,000 miles each year.
This is about 0.2% of the normal variation in Saturn's orbit due to it's eccentricity.
So - not all that large. Probably too small to notice - though over the 50 or so years of accurate observations this shift would probably have been noticed if there was one.
Basically the solar system does not expand with the Universe,
http://www.astro.ucla.edu/~wright/cosmology_faq.html#SS (the rest of that FAQ should be useful to you as well.)
... however, the expansion could have some local effects.
http://arxiv.org/abs/gr-qc/0602098
Basically the cosmological expansion is actually an effect that appears on average over very large distances and is not uniform on all scales.