I have a lady friend that thinks she loves loves me

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A user expresses concern about a female friend who has developed romantic feelings for him, despite their lack of common interests. He emphasizes that he has not encouraged these feelings, as they have been friends for 18 months and only recently has she shown affection. The discussion includes humorous suggestions about how to handle the situation, such as using a "30-day trial" to let her explore her feelings or being honest about his lack of romantic interest. Participants suggest that he should communicate clearly with her about his feelings and enjoy her company without leading her on. The conversation also touches on the idea of misinterpreting her intentions and humorously suggests learning to like her interests, like soap operas. Overall, the consensus is that open and honest communication is key to navigating this unexpected development in their friendship.
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I have a lady friend that thinks she loves loves me, i didn't intend to fire this relationship,
i just thought we were just good friends, in reality we have nothing in common, she likes soaps for gods sake, what can i do?
 
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wolram said:
I have a lady friend that thinks she loves loves me, i didn't intend to fire this relationship,
i just thought we were just good friends, in reality we have nothing in common, she likes soaps for gods sake, what can i do?
Crazy glue her pots and pans to her kitchen counters? I was going to suggest a reinactment of your previous crazy glue incident, but this should do the trick. :biggrin:

You're just so loveable Wolram. :!)
 
Yes, that (fill in the blank) does make you look fat.
 


Evo said:
Crazy glue her pots and pans to her kitchen counters? I was going to suggest a reinactment of your previous crazy glue incident, but this should do the trick. :biggrin:

You're just so loveable Wolram. :!)

I have told her that i only love Evo and MIH but she wants proof, how can i convince her i am a cyber lover.:biggrin:
 
give her a 30-day trial and let her find out for herself. after that, she may find out she wants to try on another pair of shoes. you know how they are.
 
Proton Soup said:
give her a 30-day trial and let her find out for herself. after that, she may find out she wants to try on another pair of shoes. you know how they are.

We have been friends for 18 months, it has only been in the last week or two that she has shown a love for me, i can only say i have not encouraged her.
What can i do i am up the creek without a paddle, this is so not like me.
 
Jimmy Snyder said:
Yes, that (fill in the blank) does make you look fat.
:smile:

Well there is nothing you can do really Wolram :) You cannot change her feelings for you and you have been honest that you are not encouraging her to love you. The only thing I can suggest is to let her know how you feel. She is responsible for her own feelings as long as you are honest with her :biggrin:
 
wolram said:
We have been friends for 18 months, it has only been in the last week or two that she has shown a love for me, i can only say i have not encouraged her.
What can i do i am up the creek without a paddle, this is so not like me.

Could it be that you're misinterpreting her intents?
 
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wolram said:
We have been friends for 18 months, it has only been in the last week or two that she has shown a love for me, i can only say i have not encouraged her.
What can i do i am up the creek without a paddle, this is so not like me.

tell her the truth. that you enjoy her company but aren't feeling romantic.
 
  • #11
Download pix of Evo and MIH and set them up in rotation on your PC as a screen-saver.
 
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turbo said:
Download pix of Evo and MIH and set them up in rotation on your PC as a screen-saver.

Good idea now Evo an MIH comply.
 
  • #13
wolram said:
... What can i do i am up the creek without a paddle, this is so not like me.
Maybe you should go with the flow.
 
  • #14
What is this strange feeling I am having? Could it be jealousy?
 
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wolram said:
I have a lady friend that thinks she loves loves me, i didn't intend to fire this relationship,
i just thought we were just good friends, in reality we have nothing in common, she likes soaps for gods sake, what can i do?

Learn to like soaps.:)
 
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I'm just going to go ahead and ask... Is she hot?
 
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wolram said:
We have been friends for 18 months, it has only been in the last week or two that she has shown a love for me, i can only say i have not encouraged her.
What can i do i am up the creek without a paddle, this is so not like me.

This is good! If she's only been on drugs for a week or two, a short stint in rehab has an excellent prognosis for success!
 
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BobG said:
This is good! If she's only been on drugs for a week or two, a short stint in rehab has an excellent prognosis for success!
Bob, you are bad. I would have been worse if I had thought of it, but you are bad.
 

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