Heat transfers two different ways. Electrons, and Phonons. Electricity, and Sound. Phonons are vibration of the crystal structure. Generally rubber will not transfer heat well because it isn't electrically conductive, and doesn't transfer sound well.
The trick is to increase the particle load by an enormous amount (better than 90%, this is how arctic silver works, high particle loading, and mixed particulate sizes, so the small particles fit in the gaps of the large particles). To keep the mixture from cracking try to find a spherical particulate, so shot instead of powder. Silver may corrode less than copper. Industrial grade diamond would be best, but isn't spherical so you might have to keep the particulate loading low, depending on how the mold is handled (more flexing = more tearing). It isn't linear, and even highly loaded molds will be no where the solid particulate's thermal conductivity.
Diamond transfers heat so well, because it is hard, and therefore transfers sound well. The last idea would be to bridge the entire thickness of the mold using spheres of the same size. You can get a pack of 100 surgical stainless bearings for ~$5 (62 thousandths of an inch in diameter). Just go for the size bearing that your mold is thick. Since they are smooth, the candy may release from the bearings well. This should keep everything food grade (depending on what silicone you are using):
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