Did anyone else read the Outsiders article?
Um, I'm especially interested in whether anyone else has adopted the 'marginal strategy' and still managed to be happy, and if you've spent a lot of time looking for other people 'like you' (and has anyone found them?

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Oh, and about being in special programs for gifted youth... I was moved from first grade into second and put into the gifted program, and I absolutely
loved it! In elementary school, gifted was one day a week (at another school). There was a theme each year (Oceanography, Natural Phenomena, Middle Ages & Renaissance), and we did all sorts of experiments, special projects, went on field trips, and so on, really immersing ourselves in the work. If anyone is worried about putting their kids into these programs, it was a great experience for me, and everyone else in the program seemed to enjoy it just as much as I did. I looked forward to gifted all week long and had no social problems at all in elementary school.
I decided to attend a normal middle school, where gifted was a regular, year-long class replacing Reading and Physical Education. We mostly just read books, and if you weren't interested the book, it was quite boring. My regular classes and even my advanced classes were boring. And when I started having problems at home, school was the first thing that I gave up on. I was kicked out of gifted and eventually expelled and sent to a school for students with behavior problems. When I finally resolved the problems at home and returned to regular school, I was put into remedial classes (presumably, because of my behavior history).
I managed to suffer through the rest of 8th grade, but was still placed in normal or remedial classes in high school - covering things I had already learned
years before - seriously. I also missed the chance to choose my electives, so I was in classes, like drama and home economics, which I either had no interest in or already knew about. My algebra teacher managed to get me placed into a few higher classes, but after a couple weeks, I was caught up to everyone else and the pace of the class was still too slow. I was bored out of my mind in school. I started only going to school on Fridays to take the tests and see my friends. I thought maybe if they saw that I could ace the class without needing to actually
attend class, they might finally wake up and move me to more appropriate classes. But it didn't happen, and I falied because of my poor attendance. Being now two years behind, with no hint of things improving, and with my still shaky situation at home, I dropped out of high school as soon as possible (on my 16th birthday) to start working.
I still loved learning, but I could do a better job on my own. So being challenged in school can make a huge difference; I went from loving and excelling in school to hating and failing at it. Heck, I'm still worried about not being able to find appropriate classes when I return to school and wasting my time and money going through a system that's inferior to my own and just doesn't work for me. Anywho, long story short: appropriate programs in school were a lifesaver for me.
