1. Size is irrelevant. You can have a magnet half the size of another magnet that can lift twice the weight. If you were to draw lines of force (I prefer the name magnetic flux lines because the magnetic force is not necessarily in the direction of the lines) for the two magnets, the stronger magnet will have more lines per unit area coming out of its north pole.
2 & 3. Not true. Lines exist between the magnets whether they are in attraction or repulsion.
4. I don't see why that follows even if 2 & 3 were true.
You are keen in doing an experiment and I applaud this. Here is a suggestion. I have not tried it, but it might work and does not involve complex or expensive equipment, just the ability to work with your hands.
Get a bunch of small neodymium magnets.
Find a plastic transparent tube whose diameter is slightly larger than the diameter of the magnets.
Glue one magnet on a stand at the bottom of the tube.
Repulsion mode
Drop a second magnet down the tube in repulsion (figure on the left) after you measured its weight.
Record the separation ##y## between magnets.
Add some weight (non-magnetic) and record the new value for ##y##. The force exerted by the bottom magnet on the top magnet is equal to the extra weight
plus the weight of the top magnet.
Make a plot of force versus ##y + d## where d is the length of one of the magnets. This will give you the force as a function of the separation between the magnets' midpoints which (I think) is a better description.
Attraction mode
Suspend from a string (how is your call) a magnet and send it down the tube in attraction mode. Tie the other string to an equal arm balance (see figure on the right). Pile enough weight on the pan to hold the magnet to height ##y##. The attractive force exerted by the bottom magnet on the top magnet will be equal to the weight of the pan plus weights
minus the weight of the top magnet. Make another plot and compare.
I leave the details to you, but it is important to realize that in attraction mode you don't want the magnets to stick together because then it might be impossible to separate them without taking the whole thing apart. To that effect, I would cut two diametrically opposing vertical slots on the side of the tube and push a non-magnetic but sturdy rod across, (that's the "Stop" in the figure.) It will keep the top magnet from sticking to the bottom magnet and you can also use it to slide the top magnet up without pulling on the string. Also, a thin coating of baby powder inside the tube will keep sticky moisture away and decrease friction.
If you get any results, we will be curious to see them. Good luck.